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Dressage with a Distance How dressage dreams can come true even living in a very remote area in the Northern Territory.

14 weeks ago to the day Olly had his eye removed. I definitely didn’t think I would be riding again so soon let alone be...
15/07/2026

14 weeks ago to the day Olly had his eye removed.

I definitely didn’t think I would be riding again so soon let alone being back in the dressage area.

It has been quite the process for both of us.

The wound broke down after a week and had to be treated as an open wound. It then took 7 weeks to completely close.

Incredibly blessed to have such a brilliant horse.

He has adjusted so very well.
It’s taken me quite an awhile to work through the ridden mental barrier of him having one eye. But after just one lesson with my coach Nicole I actually forgot about it by the end of the lesson.

During the last two days at the comp he hasn’t missed a beat and gave me some beautiful work in the area.

I will be honest it was quite a big ask, not only was I bring him back after such a huge change of loosing an eye but he hasn’t been in work for over two years.

So to adapt so well and have him slip back into work only 6 weeks ago is just remarkable.
I owe so much to that horse. He is simply a legend.

We dropped back to prelim and we achieved some really good scores.

2 x Second Places
2 x Third Places

Thanks to the Katherine Show Society, Vicky, Ruth, Vicki all those involved in making it happen.

Thank you to my coach Nicole for helping me overcome the mental barriers and making me get on with my job.

Thank you to Vicki for the coffee, chips and debrief sessions also.

One of us were enjoying our show prep this arvy more than the other …He got the last laugh… just glad he rolled on the s...
13/07/2026

One of us were enjoying our show prep this arvy more than the other …
He got the last laugh… just glad he rolled on the side without the plaits. 🤦‍♀️🫣😂
Still love him beyond words!

The coolest thing happened yesterday…I came out and hooked the car onto the horse float and put the tail gate down while...
05/07/2026

The coolest thing happened yesterday…

I came out and hooked the car onto the horse float and put the tail gate down while Olly stood and watched me.

As I walked over to him I said … “you wanna go for a ride Lol? “

As I got the the gate and grabbed his halter he simply walked off calmly down the paddock.

I didn’t respond or do anything… something in me just said don’t walk after him just wait and observe.

However I did think .. well that’s a No… looks like I’m not riding today.

But I just stood and watched him for a bit longer.
He continued to walk away and gave a small glacé back.

So I went and turned the car off and stood in the shade.

To my great surprise he simply went to his poo spot, did a poo and took a wee then just stood there.

So I walked back to the gate and just waited to see what he would do now.

And you know what… he walked straight back to me and started sniffing the halter!

He had made me eat my words.

Gosh it was a cool observation and lesson for me.

Dam I love that horse. 🐴

Update -

I went out again this morning to load him up and go for another ride… today was a very different answer.

It was absolutely a hard NO.

As soon as I got to the gate he walked off into the thick trees.

So I did the same as yesterday and waited. I went and sat in the car for a few minutes and then came out to check if he had come out.

Yeah he had but it was way down the back of the paddock.

So I walked casually down to him with carrot and halter In hand.

He ate only half of the carrot and walked off deep into the thick trees again. So I knew the answer for certain.

I went and changed clothes and started washing the car and float out front of his paddock. He popped his head out a few times to check if I was still hanging around and promptly returned to his his hiding spots.

Bless him. 💗🐴

I feel this on a many levels. While I still physical have my horse…. Many many things have changed in a short time. Last...
26/04/2026

I feel this on a many levels.
While I still physical have my horse…. Many many things have changed in a short time.

Last week Olly had to have his eye removed due to a horrible eye ulcer.

While he is adjusting to a new world as a one eyed horse and a new living environment to name a few things I’m also adjusting to how I manage with the changes also.
It’s bought on a whole new level of anxiety for both of us.
I’m also grieving a bond that I now feel like I have to start over again.
Trust that has to be rebuild in new ways and a partnership of riding and competing that I’m not sure I will ever have with him again.

Whilst Im very grateful to be able to have the opportunity to adjust to these new challenges instead of having no horse at all. It’s still a valid emotion I’m processing at the moment.

He now also has a new level of anxious behaviour when I take the other horse away… which is 100% warranted but also makes managing and having two horses hard.

So that is why this quote hits hard and felt I needed to share…

When two horses are bonded, their connection becomes part of how they regulate, move, rest, and feel safe in the world.

They don’t just share space. They share a nervous system rhythm. One watches while the other softens. One moves, the other follows. There is a constant, quiet exchange of reassurance.

When that bond is broken, it’s not simply a loss of companionship. It disrupts how that horse experiences safety, connection, and even their place within the herd.

You’ll often see it in the small things. Changes in movement, calling, searching, withdrawal, or a horse that suddenly feels unsettled in ways that don’t seem obvious at first.

Because they are not just missing another horse.

They are missing the one they organised themselves around.

23/02/2026

So often riders try to create the perfect frame with their hands, thinking that a round neck equals correct connection. But that’s not how true balance works.🤔

A correct frame appears naturally when the horse moves from back to front, trusts the rider’s hand, and finds his own rhythm and relaxation.

The energy flows freely through the body, and the neck becomes the result, not the starting point.

When the connection comes from the hind legs into a soft, steady hand, you don’t need to hold the horse in a frame, he offers it to you.

💭 Next time you ride, ask yourself: are you shaping the neck… or developing balance?

26/12/2025

"When I first got out of veterinary school and started looking at horses prior to purchase (usually referred to as a “vet check” or a prepurchase exam), the horses usually fit into one of three categories.

The first category was the horse with no problems noted at the time of the exam. That decision was usually pretty straight-forward. I’d look at the horse and if I didn’t find or see any problems, that was usually that.

The second category was for a horse that wasn’t sound at the time of examination. I wasn’t always sure WHY the horse was limping – determining why a horse was limping is a lameness exam, not a presale exam. If the horse was limping noticeably, usually that was enough, and particularly if I could find the reason why (say, an arthritic joint).

The third category was what used to be referred to as, “Serviceably sound.” That is, the horse may not have been perfect, he might have been a little stiff going in one direct, but he had been doing his job for a long time and, in my opinion, he could probably keep doing the job that was asked of him for a good while longer. But today, in this day of X-raying every bone, pushing, prodding, flexing, and making SWAGs (SWAG = Scientific Wild-A** Guess) about the future, I’m often left wondering, “What happened to that horse that was serviceably sound?”

About two years ago I was asked to give a fourth opinion on a 20-year-old warmblood horse. The horse had been through the entire diagnostic gamut: MRI’s and bone scans, ultrasound and X-rays of most every bone in the horse’s body. She’d had expert opinions from hospitals and radiologists. She wasn’t moving 100% sound and all of the diagnostic tests and all of the expert opinions confirmed that the horse should never be ridden again (I know because I saw the reports).

As you might imagine, I wasn’t immediately sure what I could bring to the table, what with all of the diagnosing and opining that had already gone on. Nevertheless, I ran ma hands over her legs, felt the slight swelling in her stifle joints, and I noticed the stiffness when I flexed her legs. This sweet, patient mare never objected to anything that I did and never fought back against anything I asked. Next, I asked to watch her move. She certainly didn’t have a full, easy moving gait but she moved willingly: happily. So I asked, “What do you want to do with her?”

The owner, who obviously cared about her horse enough to float the budget of a few small countries, said, “I’d like her to be able to give lessons to kids.”

“Why don’t you give it a try?” I said.

The owner, furrowing her brow, responded, “But what about all of the reports?”

I said, “Don’t let her read them.”

Today, three years later, the old girl regularly and happily gives lessons to kids in a riding program. She doesn’t go very fast or for very long, and it helps her to get a pain-relieving drug from time to time. But she’s got a job, she’s the apple of the eyes of any number of kids, and she’s, well, happy (at least as far as anyone can tell).

ANOTHER ASIDE: A saw a 18-year-old gelding who had been through MRI and blocking and X-rays and medication and shoeing changes as a result of a hoof problem that just wouldn’t let the horse move without a slight forelimb limp, especially when the horse had to go in a circle. I travelled a good bit out of my practice area, looked at all of the data, and asked the owner, “What do you do with him?”

The owner said, “I take him out for walks on the trail two or three times a week.”

And I said, “Why not just give him a little bit of pain reliever when you go out on the trail and let him walk around this nice arena the rest of the time?”

“But won’t the pain reliever destroy his stomach?” she asked.

“No.”

That was four years ago. I saw the owners at a lecture I gave a year or so later and everyone was happy. As far as I know, his stomach didn’t explode, and things are still going well. It’s a good situation for everyone.

The reason that I bring this up is that to me, it seems that the business side of the horse world is suggesting that the only thing a horse owner should be satisfied with is perfect or “optimum” or “ideal” or some other bit of linguistic innuendo that suggests that a horse just might have some hidden problem lurking beneath his skin that’s going to result in imminent death or disaster. It seems to me that the business world is trying to sell horse owners on the idea that there are only two choices for a horse: perfect or disaster.

I think that the relentless search for perfection in horse health is mostly terrible. I think that constantly worrying about horses, spending hours on the internet looking for information about what might go wrong helps deprive a lot of horse owners of the joy of horse ownership. If your horse looks at his side, it usually doesn’t mean that he’s twisted his intestines. If your horse is on a good diet, it’s extremely unlikely that he’s on the edge of some nutritional cliff, about to fall over but for the good fortune that you’ve had in finding the latest supplement. Worrying about your horse too much can lead owners to seek out unnecessary testing, to waste money on veterinary (and other) visits, and to look for comfort from endless interventions and products.

Of course, it’s good to be aware of your horse’s health. But there’s a difference between being worried about your horse when he’s sick or limping and being constantly worried about him becoming sick or lame. Excessive worrying about a normal horse is a real problem: mostly, for the horse owner.

YET ANOTHER ASIDE: A 70-year-old client came to me with her 19-year-old gelding. She’d been given the horse from a riding school and she was concerned because she had been told that the horse was limping. I watched him trot – there was a slight limp.

“What do you do with him?” I asked.

“I like to walk on the trails with him on the weekend with my friends. Or maybe every other weekend.”

I could feel a slight enlargement at his pastern – I was pretty sure he had a bit of osteoarthritis (also known as “ringbone”).

Here’s a partial list of things that I did not recommend: X-rays, bone scan, MRI, joint injections, joint supplements, special shoes, liniment, PRP, or stem cells.

Instead, I pointed to her husband, 75, and said, “How’s Fred? Is he getting around the same way he did when you were married 50 years ago?”

Laughing, she said, “No.”

“Want to get rid of him?”

“Only sometimes” she smiled.

I told her to keeping going on nice long walks, and perhaps give him (the horse – I don’t prescribe medicine for people) a pain reliever if he’s limping a bit. Things have been going great for several months – in fact, I saw them both just the other day. It’s a perfect situation for both of them. Nobody is perfectly sound, including Fred. But everybody is serviceable. And happy.

So what’s “serviceable?” I think that it means that the horse can do the job that’s being asked of him without suffering. Horses will generally go out and try to do their best – that’s one of the things we love about them. It’s our job to take care of them, but it’s not our job to make everything perfect: that’s an impossibility. A horse can be less than perfect and still be wonderful.

Here’s Mark Twain’s idea of a good horse. “I preferred a safe horse to a fast one—I would like to have an excessively gentle horse—a horse with no spirit whatever—a lame one, if he had such a thing.” (Roughing It, Chapter 64).

I don’t usually see things as black and white. I tend to think that the perfect is the enemy of the good. I don’t think that a horse is either good or bad. There are lots of good horses out there that might have a little flaw or imperfection but who will also be the best horse anyone could ever ask for. Don’t overlook one of them simply because he’s not somebody else’s idea of perfection. He might not be perfect, but he can still be serviceable… and even still be great!"

📎 Save & share this article by David Ramey, DVM at https://www.theplaidhorse.com/2021/08/09/what-ever-happened-to-serviceably-sound/
📸 © The Plaid Horse

26/12/2025

3 Things You’re Doing That Aren’t Helping Your Canter

Let’s talk about canter honestly for a minute.
Because a lot of riders are struggling… quietly… while being told to do things that actually make it worse.

Here are three very common pieces of advice that aren’t helping your canter — and why.

1️⃣ “Just kick harder.”

This one gets passed around like it’s harmless. It’s not.

Kicking harder:
• Makes many horses resentful
• Can scare riders who are already unsure
• And can lead to some not-so-fun outcomes

Ever been bucked off?
Launched?
Kicked out at?

That wasn’t your horse being “bad.”
That was a nervous system saying enough.

Forward doesn’t come from force.
It comes from balance, clarity, and timing.

2️⃣ “Don’t let them break.”

This one sounds logical… but it’s false.

Horses don’t break gait because they’re lazy or trying to get out of work.
They break because something is hard.

Sometimes it’s the horse.
Sometimes it’s the rider.
Often, it’s both.

If you make the canter easier, horses keep cantering.
If you make it stressful, they look for the exit.

Letting a horse come back to trot or walk isn’t “teaching them a bad habit.”
It’s giving both of you a chance to recover.

And recovery is how confidence is built.

3️⃣ “Just keep cantering.”

Staying in the canter when:
• you’re off balance
• your horse is off balance
• or one of you is uncomfortable

…is basically asking for a problem.

More canter does not equal better canter.

Better canter comes from:
• thoughtful transitions
• organized downward shifts
• showing the horse what you want before asking again

Stop.
Reset.
Go again.

Can you ever do too many transitions?

No.
Transitions are where balance is built.
They are not a step backward — they are the work.

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Here’s the part most riders don’t hear enough:

If canter feels hard, it’s not because you’re inadequate.
It’s because you’ve been taught to override information instead of listen to it.

When both nervous systems feel safe, the gait takes care of itself.

And that changes everything.
Reconnect, Rebuild, and Ride with Heart.

11/11/2025
01/11/2025

Today I had the pleasure of trimming a friends horses hooves whilst adding in some massage at the time.

I’ve found that trimming hooves and body work go hand in hand - so why not do them in the same visit!

The horses responded so well to today’s treatment + trim. It makes for such an enjoyable experience for both myself, the horses and their woderful owner. 🧲🐎

01/11/2025

Now that I have relocated into Katherine NT for work I’m able to offer my services in a more consistent hands on way.
I’m now offering hands on body work sessions, that are tailored to you and your horses specific needs.
Including but not limited to barefoot hoof trims, massage and body work.
This offer is extend to all of our four legged family members including dogs and cats.

If you would like to know more, I invite you to reach out to me and we can have a chat how I can best assist you and your animals.

Looking forward to connecting with you soon. 🐴🐈🐂🐐🐾🐎

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