Nicky Kingston-Davies - Accountability & Mindset Coach

12/08/2021

"We don’t thrive despite our challenges. We thrive because of our challenges." by Zach Mercurio. PH.D

This is one of many lessons I have learned during the last 8 months since I turned my life upside down. Moving from a comfortable lifestyle in Sydney's Northern Beaches to way out of my comfort zone in a small regional farm in the Bega Valley (it's like being back at my high school accommodation ).

I wished I had shared my journey along the way as this emotional rollercoaster resulted in so many valuable insights, however major self-doubt and messiness kicked in and I found it too difficult to share the way I was feeling. I have used every coaching tool in my toolbox on myself, and I am extremely proud of what I have achieved!

It’s my journey, it’s my responsibility! My thoughts control my feelings which then drive my actions. I am responsible for where I am, who I want to be, and where I want to go.

I never had the guidance of processing my emotions when I was growing up which sent me down a spiral path of loneliness. Thankfully, I learned it during my adulthood and I am now living a more self-connected fulfilled life. I actually get excited to discover my ‘Aha’ moments, with a sense of empowerment and confidence that comes with acceptance and knowledge. I take a deep dive analytical approach that puts things into perspective, achieves clarity and gains resolution.

If you would like to share your situation with someone who will listen to understand and not let their opinions interfere with your process or if you would like to learn more about my accountability process, send me a message.

You don’t have to do it alone!

Stay tuned for more of my ‘life’ project insights.

Nicky

p.s Sharing gratitude to those who helped me along the way. Hawkins Coaching Nicky Hammond Coaching Ask for Tati

28/05/2020

Today I received this beautiful gift which was totally out of the blue.

I am glowing in the effects of an act of kindness that has been given. The warmth of joy and feeling of being special 💝

Thank you Sally from Fertile Body for your thoughtful moment that is very gratefully received and a reminder of how good it feels to receive and therefore how good it feels to give.

The beautify gift serviced by Wander Lightly.

How would you show your appreciation to someone?

27/05/2020

Where have I been? 🤔

Trying other opportunities that arose!

BUT .... in all honestly allowing myself to be distracted with other things that kept me from facing the challenges of building my own business. I totally underestimated the emotional rollercoaster.

This is what brought me back.... the passion for the blow:

🔹 Help others through sharing
🔹 Learn about myself through sharing
🔹 Deeper level of connection with you and myself

Through sharing, I allow myself the time to understanding my own awareness.

Look forward to YOU holding me accountable for my authenticity by your comments and interactions 😯

14/03/2020

Feeling very privileged to facilitate my very first workshop today in Business Constellation Workshop: Find the hidden dynamics

Thank you to these lovely ladies for trusting me to hold the space so they could dive a little deeper into what they truly needed within their business.

Already looking forward to the next one.

💗

03/03/2020

Hanging out this morning at one of my favorite events. The discussions are becoming more open and meaningful.

We discuss the concept of International Women's Day and what it means to our business. So I walked away solidified in my opinion for equality for both men and women, for young and old!

How do I bring this into my business?

By providing the best service I can to whomever I come across.

I love the connection at . 🙏

24/07/2019

Preparing for my collaboration events coach provids the opportunity for small business owners to explore problems and ideas they have in their business with other small business owners.

08/03/2019

I attended the Northern Beaches International Woman's Day breakfast this morning with guest speaker Tracey Spicer. The Real Tracey Spicer

😱 Wow! Tracey is an captivating speaker, sharing her own stories through honesty and humour. Her message focused on speaking up with indecent behaviour against woman in the workforce and also the blocker for most woman is knowing the language on how to do that.

After the event I had a chance to talk to some 16 year old girls who also attended. They were shocked with these stories and I got a sense of gratitude, as they were already in part-time jobs, that it has not happened to them and if it did they would now know what to do.

It is a reminder to me the power in sharing your stories as you never know who you will help.

I also noted that when I was in the corporate world, I lived in the bubble of work, home and friends, which is not bad at all, however it lacked purpose! Today I realised there is so much more to this world and it is just possible that I, yes me, could have a small positive influence to a better future.

Thank you WoManly Community for including me on your table and making it an extra special event. 💜

05/03/2019

I had an amazing experience learning about myself recently which was made extra special in sharing it with a beautiful friend and client Katka Zajac.

Thank you Leading Edge Life Skills for showing how I can learn about myself by teaming up with other people to lead a horse around the arena of obstacles.

It reinforced for me that clear, open communication and path showing empathy and compassion made going through the obstacles seamlessly.

However my main insight is it to take the time! I needed to get to know the horse, the team. Take time to observe and pay attention. To reflect on what I was doing and then change my behaviour according for the horse to trust and respect me so we could reach the desired outcome and at the same time feel 'good' about myself.

💙 Tuesday Insights 💙

Even if you think that something wont be beneficially, there is always an opportunity!

02/03/2019

Something I am extremely proud to be part off.

I've joined up with WoManly Community networking group who are extremely keen to make a difference by supporting Northern Beaches Women's Shelter.

In celebration of International Womans Day we are raising funds to help woman in need on the Northern Beaches of Sydney.

If you are a woman in business have live in the Northern Beaches of Sydney jump on board by commenting this post.

⭐WOMANLY COMMUNITY⭐

Be part of International Women's Day and help support the Northern Beaches Women's Shelter in raising much-needed funds.

We are looking for 100 local businesses to come on board and help us reach our target of raising $5,000 for women in need in our community!!

By signing up you will receive:
✔️Free attendance to the next WoManly meeting of your choice
✔️Recognition of your support on page, newsletter and website
✔️A personalised thank you certificate for your support of the Northern Beaches Women’s Shelter to display in your business

In return we ask that you support the cause by donating $50 that will go straight to Women’s Shelter. 😊

To be part of this please drop your email below or send us a DM and we will send further information on how to be involved.

Help us reach our target and together we can make a difference in our community! Thank you 🙏

28/02/2019

After a desperate cry for help from a client to hold her hand while she declutted her office so she could clear her create space in her mind to more forward in her business.

I came across this quote and felt it summarised exactly why I had cluttered. When 'things' didn't have a place or required a decision that I had not made, it then got added to a pile to deal with later..... that pile got bigger and bigger.....clutter! 😱

Food for thought! How do you think clutter happens?