06/08/2026
As coaches we come across players that show so much potential and capability yet they may not connect with the bigger picture. Some players just want to have a run and play with their friends, others want to be competitive and grow to higher grades and outcomes.
We need to remember this. They may not have the “toughness” in their game, or the desire to even want it.
When we coach the person we have to accept that being a nice person for 99% of the week is much better than having the toughness for the 1% required for high grades. If the player doesn’t have it, that’s ok.
Some are lucky they can switch between both.
Time and maturity can flick the switch sometimes, yet it’s when the player/person wants it. When they grow the desire to get stronger physically and mentally to play at the level you can see them at.
We see the potential, we can guide them, but it has to come from within themselves. Also, if it doesn’t come, or they don’t click right now, it doesn’t mean they won’t ever. Remember the game is theirs, not ours.
Don’t push so hard that a sweet player may lose the love of their game.