24/03/2025
Are you are student of the teacher?
Ask yourself, who decides you have become a student? Just because you visit the Dōjō, pay your fees and sweep after class, does this automatically make you a student of the martial arts, the Dōjō and the teacher?
Regardless of who has their name on the Nafudagake ( nameplate hook ) this also doesn’t mean they are still considered students of the Dōjō.
In this day and age of the ‘consumer mentality’, people think they are entitled to get what they want when they pay money to join a Dōjō. In the martial arts, this is far from the truth. Your fees merely allow you the privilege to enter the school and from there, provide time for you to prove yourself.
That is all.
At anytime, the teacher may ask you to leave. They are not concerned about money, but rather if the individual holds the right temperament and heart for the martial arts. I remember hearing from Sôke that Takamatsu Sensei would often quickly turn people away and not accept them for training if he saw they didn’t have what it took.
Ultimately, if you are wanting to study under a teacher, it is the teacher that decides when you become a student of theirs, not you. You can want them to be your teacher, yet in truth, it needs to be a mutual agreement that is sealed by the teachers decision to accept you. This could take months or even years. It also may never happen.
The teacher Is looking for someone that has the heart, conviction of will and true soulful desire to study the arts, live as a martial artist, and make the many sacrifices do so.
The connection will be felt when this decision has been made through Shinden,Taiden and Kuden.
From then, it all depends on how much the student can grasp the teachings, remain connected to the teacher, and flow with the Bufū ( martial wind ).
Remember, the teacher gives you their life, while the student just gives them their time.
南虎