14/07/2023
I want to talk with you guys about ‘food guilt’ and other related emotional issues in dieting.
Recently I’ve had more people come to me for diet coaching and I’ve heard a lot of people say the same things and present with the same issues about how they feel guilty about what they eat or anxious about writing it down, all these negative emotions that get in the way of properly tracking their diet, which makes successfully controlling your diet whether it’s for weight loss, weight gain, maintenance or even improved health much more difficult.
I think everyone experiences feelings of guilt or anxiety about food whether they’re dieting or not because at some level everyone generally knows what’s ‘good’ or ‘bad’ for them to eat. No one’s out here convinced that soda or KFC is actually good for you. And if we’re being serious about what motivates people, negative emotions are very legitimate factors. Sometimes feeling embarrassed or ashamed or guilty of your diet & the physique or health it’s gotten you can be a powerful motivator.
However, for most people, it’s important to at least *start* with the positives. Chances are, if you’re reading this, you’re making some effort to train, whether it’s completely random, or with a structured program, or with myself or another coach. You’re probably making some kind of effort to improve your diet too, whether that’s just intuitively trying to eat ‘healthier’, all the way up to tracking calories or macros or even getting help via diet coaching.
These are all steps in the right direction and you really should feel proud of that. Recognise the improvements you’ve made in your habits. Before I started training, I barely exercised at all and my diet was terrible, a huge portion of it was junk food and I ate barely any vegetables at all. When I started training, for some reason I just came to the conclusion that I also needed to eat better foods, whatever that means. Before long I was a lot fitter and healthier and a lot happier with my physique, and that was a long time before I knew how to train or diet effectively.
So be proud that you’re taking steps in the right direction, and don’t be afraid to write down when you’ve had some junk food or a beer or wine or two. Tasty food can make you happy and there’s nothing wrong with that, and you can fit it into your diet a lot more than you’d think, but if you let eating tasty food making you feel bad then what’s the point at all? a lot of people who are overweight are unhappy with their body AND they don’t even really enjoy the food anymore. Who wants that? Enjoy tasty food, don’t feel bad about it, diet and train effectively, feel good about that, and get the best of both worlds. Just take it one step at a time.