23/04/2026
Get comfortable with being uncomfortable – that is the road to greatness, if you choose to take it.
Imagine this: you were born into a poor family and a rough neighbourhood, with father figures largely absent. Your mother was left to raise you with your two siblings. However, your mother was never proud of you or built a close bond with you. You were small, overweight and illiterate, often a target for bullies. To survive, you got into fights, gangs, crime and drugs…and 2 years into your teens was arrested over 30 times.
You are sent to a reform school and given a counsellor. Your counsellor, you learn, was an amateur fighting champion. You and your counsellor make a trade: he agrees to train you on the condition that you work harder on your education and stay out of trouble.
The opportunity sets a spark off in you. You study hard, keep out of trouble and work on your passion. Your efforts pay off, and eventually get introduced to the trainer that not only takes you to the next level in your training, but becomes the father figure you never had. In 7 short years, you become the youngest heavyweight champion that has ever lived – and still holds that record today.
That person? Mike Tyson.
There are innumerable stories of people who grew up with every possible disadvantage, yet seized opportunities to become successes in their field: from living out of their cars (Steve Harvey, Jim Carrey), to single parents on welfare (J.K Rowling), and learning difficulties (Richard Branson).
If you’ve read this far, it’s possible you share the same qualities as these people: you weren’t born into privilege. You may even share some of their early situations in your own personal life. But they weren’t comfortable being where they were. Many didn’t get their big break until they were adults – Samuel L. Jackson didn’t get his until he was in his 40s!
Don’t believe me? Here are just a few articles about people who overcame adversity, with many becoming household names:
https://www.moneymade.com/careers/incredible-stories-people-who-went-extreme-poverty-unimaginable-wealth
https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/articles/zw9fg2p
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2020-03-13/breaking-cycles-of-disadvantage-isnt-easy-but-it-is-possible/12041452
They had - or developed - a passion and continued to work on it when they had every excuse to give up. They kept grinding, and seized opportunities when they came up. They didn’t let their situations define them.
Will you let your situation define you, or will you define your situation?
Try something new. Build your skills and work to your strengths. Learn from the people that came before you not only from their successes, but also in their challenges and lessons learned. Don’t just be unhappy with where you are – HATE it, and let that hate drive you to where you want to be instead of lashing out at what’s around you. No excuses.
You don’t have to become world famous to be successful…but you can get to a place where you are healthy, happy, and can provide for yourself and those you love. That, in itself, is success.
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