03/11/2025
βHe Wanted Di6grace, I Gave Him Di6grace And Now Everybody Is Blaming Meβ β Lady Who 6lapped Boyfriend During Proposal at Friendβs Wedding Speaks Outβ
Emmanuella, the lady who went viral for 6lapping her boyfriend after he proposed to her during their friendβs wedding, has finally shared her side of the story.
In a video statement, she addressed the backla6h, saying she has been trending βfor the wrong reasonsβ since the incident. According to her, while many people have labeled her a bad person, what truly worries her are the thre4ts she has been receiving online.
βIβve been trending since yesterday, and people are calling me names. I donβt care about that, but Iβve been getting de4th thre4ts, so I want to clear the air,β she began.
Responding to those asking if she would apologize, Emmanuella firmly said she would not.
βAm I supposed to apologise? Yes. But will I apologise? No. Ben deserved what he got,β she said.
She went on to explain that Ben had been asking her out for months, but she consistently turned him down because she wasnβt interested in a long-distance relationship.
βHe stays in Port Harcourt, and I live in Lagos. I told him I canβt do a long-distance relationship,β she said. βSo why would he come and propose to me at someone elseβs wedding? Does that make sense?β
Emmanuella said she felt Benβs public proposal was an attempt to embarra66 her, so she reacted in the way she felt was appropriate.
βHe wanted to di6grace himself, and I di6graced him. Now everyone is blaming me. Heβs the one who brought it upon himself,β she added.
She also called out Ben and his friends, accusing them of fueling the online att4cks against her.
βBen, can you and your boys β Bryan and Edafe β stop dragging me online? Look at my DMs; Iβm getting de4th threats because of you people. If Bryan hadnβt posted that video, would I be receiving those messages? Ben, please, call your d0gs and put them on a leash, abeg,β she said.
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