12/09/2022
The theme of this Family Constellation workshop with is 'Relationship with the Father' Very often when we set up a family constellation workshop and we observe an emerging theme of that workshop. Almost as if the souls that come together to attend have already tuned in to their resonating wounds. More about the Father Wound After your mother, the most important bond for your wellbeing
is with your father. When, at the soul level, we are missing our father, we lack a special strength that helps us in life and can only come through him. For example, if your father was not present physically or emotionally, or your mother did not allow you to have access to him, by rejecting him or speaking negatively about him, you may have grown up rejecting him.
When we reject our father (complain, reproach him, blame him, etc.) it is felt as if we are rejecting part of ourselves, as if half of us is not worthy (of love, success, fulfillment in life, etc.) and we feel an inner void that we will always try to fill with external things. Such is the case with many addictions.
Taking our father into our heart, healing the wounds that we had as children and integrating him is a deep inner process that each of us needs to go through if we want to succeed in life. It is not always easy because each of us has a different challenge, a different wound and each journey towards our dad is unique. By taking the journey, we open the door to the masculine energy in its purest form and we integrate its qualities within us that will help us with how we are in the world.
Why is healing the father wound important?
Healing the father wound can help you with the following:
Overcoming difficulties in your life
Making decisions
Setting boundaries
Gaining clarity, logical and mathematical thinking
How you allow others to treat you
Independence, identity and self-esteem Beginning new things such as projects, relationships, changing jobs, moving, etc.
"If mom is the gateway to life, dad is the portal to the world."
- Marina Toledo
