27/05/2026
I was you once. Please read ❤️🩹
I hated my body. I was carrying 30kg extra and kept trying every fu***ng measure to get it off — EXTREME measures btw, because I thought it was possible to lose it all in a few weeks or months.
I would only wear certain shaped clothes. Had meltdowns over outfits, cried over them and had a terrible relationship with myself in my 20s. I feel bad for her, now.
I even once abused laxatives for a period of time to try and undo every ‘binge’ (not real bingeing btw) I would have because my dieting was so extreme I was constantly starving so I would then end up getting a takeaway and eating LOADS and thought they could undo the mistake.
But in my late 20s I finally got myself a coach and done a real plan that actually had REAL coaching behind it. A plan where someone would stop me from making mistakes and call me out on behaviours and things that once made me yo-yo.
Actually I had tried a coach prior to this who told me when I had a dominoes one night by accident to run a 10k the next day to undo it so I fired her 😅
My new coach was great but it meant slow, but sustainable results. I initially thought this was a bad thing but it is so f***ing valuable you wouldn’t believe.
Now many years later I have now spent 7 years maintaining that fat loss with a second baby inbetween, terminally unwell parents and juggling a business that supports over 150 women at any one time.
Now this is me. People who watch but never engage probably think I now love myself or even think who does she think she is?
They are partly right.. yes I do now finally at the age of 35 love myself, and my body — not completely but a hell of a lot more than I used to and it was EARNED.
So if you’re currently where I once was… overwhelmed, exhausted and stuck in the cycle… please know this:
You do not need another extreme plan. You need support, strategy and someone who actually gives a s**t about helping you keep the results for life.
But most importantly know where you are doesn’t need to be permanent and you can change 🤍