03/06/2026
I remember finally accepting that I was in a toxic relationship. I was talking with one of my oldest friends who is like my brother and being a man, he was practical. He asked "What do you need now. This is not likely to get better."
In that moment I spoke a truth I didn't even realize.
I know. But I feel so drained. I feel lost. I feel broken.
Before I can make a decision about what comes next, I have to come back to myself. I have to get strong.
That moment changed so much for me. I became willing to face myself (and all my own stuff and nonsense) and fight for myself. I stopped giving my energy to anything toxic and focused on myself.
I took radical responsibility
And also radical self care.
I had to learn to own myself.
Validate myself.
Love myself.
Reclaim myself.
Once I started doing that, my personal power increased.
I was able to become more creative, magnetic and even more useful to God.
I broke up with being weak.
Soft is not the same as weak.
I'm still soft but I work to be strong as well.
I'm working on becoming stronger mind, body and spirit.
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I'm also opening up some special private coaching opportunities for women who are ready to reclaim themselves.
Become stronger and more powerful without sacrificing their femininity or softness.
Women who want to return to God's original design for them.
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