Jackie Glaser

Home
Jackie Glaser

Contact information, map and directions, contact form, opening hours, services, ratings, photos, videos and announcements from Jackie Glaser, Coach, .

27/05/2026

📝 You don’t need three months and a broken heart to figure this out. You need about five minutes and the right attention.

Here’s what to watch for, before the appetizers even arrive.

1. How does he treat the waiter? Not you. The waiter. You’re on your best behavior. So is he. But the person taking his order? That’s where the mask slips. Dismissive, impatient, doesn’t say thank you — noted.

2. Does he ask you questions — and actually listen to the answers? A man who talks about himself for 45 minutes straight isn’t nervous. He’s telling you exactly who he is. Watch whether he follows up on something you said, or just waits for his turn to speak again.

3. How does he handle a small inconvenience? The table isn’t right. The food takes too long. Something doesn’t go his way. Does he roll with it, or does the energy in his body shift in a way that makes you want to shrink? That reaction — right there — is data.

4. Does he make you feel like your comfort matters? Is he aware of you — are you cold, are you okay, do you need anything? It doesn’t have to be grand. It’s the small attunement that tells you whether a man is capable of considering someone other than himself.

5. What does he do when you disagree — even mildly? You prefer something different. You push back gently on something he said. Does he get curious, or does he get defensive? A man who can’t handle a minor difference of opinion on a first date will not suddenly become emotionally mature in a relationship.

6. Does he make you feel like you have to perform to keep his interest? This one is subtle but important. Do you feel like you can just be — or do you feel like you’re constantly working to hold his attention?

You are not there to impress him. You are there to see him.

The right man won’t require you to be smaller, funnier, or more agreeable than you actually are. He’ll be genuinely interested in who you are — including the parts that don’t match his preferences perfectly.

Anyone who makes you feel otherwise in the first five minutes — believe him.

If this is the kind of clarity you’ve been craving in your dating life, the link in my bio i

26/05/2026

Dating is not about performing to secure approval.

It’s about becoming real enough to see clearly who this person is when you stop editing yourself.

If someone pulls away the moment you become authentic, that is information.

Hashem sees the full version of you.

Not only the polished version.
The whole thing.

And the right person will too.

24/05/2026

⚠️ This is not a joke. I REPEAT… This is not a joke! These are real things matchmakers have actually said to my current course participants!

God doesn’t need any specific matchmaker to make your match and neither do you. If anyone says anything remotely close to this to you… walk away and never call them again.

You don’t have to lose your dignity and self respect to date… ever!

20/05/2026

✨ One of the deepest parts of dating and life in general is learning surrender.

Trusting that you are not behind. Trusting that you don’t have to force, control, chase or grip so tightly all the time. Trusting that Hashem is still present even in uncertainty.

It’s a crucial practice daily to zoom out to a bigger perspective. That’s part of why I loved what created.

The pieces are beautiful, but more than that, they can act as physical reminders throughout the day to reconnect to the internal work we’re trying to practice.

Sometimes you can look down at a ring or bracelet and it interrupts the spiral in your head for a second. It brings you back to yourself. Back to trust. Back to perspective. Back to Hashem.

You can use code JACKIE10 for 10% off their pieces, and the same code also works for my courses if you want to do this work more deeply together.

And just to be clear: this jewelry is not essential for practicing surrender. You do not need to buy anything to access trust, connection, or spirituality. This is simply one of many tools that can act as a reminder throughout the day. I’m always looking for things that genuinely support the process of growth, and this felt aligned in that way.

Links are in bio.

19/05/2026

I honestly think someone should be relatively stable before dating for marriage.

Their life does not need to be perfect. Human beings are always growing.

But if someone has no direction, no responsibility, no emotional grounding, and their life is in constant chaos, that will affect the relationship.

Marriage asks a lot from people.

You need to be able to show up consistently, handle pressure, communicate, and make room for another person in your life.

Potential alone is usually not enough.

18/05/2026

This is why women in this state often attract emotionally unavailable men, poor character, inconsistency, and ghosting. We tolerate things that match the way we already feel about ourselves underneath.

If someone not choosing you feels devastating, dating won’t feel adult. It’ll feel like trying to earn love.

That’s usually not about him. It’s much older than him.

Real dating starts when you remember that you are not there to perform for approval. You’re there to observe, discern, and see whether someone is actually right for your life.

17/05/2026

💜 As a Dating Coach and Expert, these are the TOP 5 dating patterns that I see keep women stuck — and what’s usually underneath them.

1. Chasing emotionally unavailable men.

The avoidant guy. The man who keeps one foot out the door. The connection that feels intense but never fully safe.

A lot of women think they just “want him more.”

But usually, inconsistency feels familiar. Love had to be earned growing up, so chasing becomes associated with connection. Calm availability can even feel emotionally flat in comparison.

2. Overgiving, overexplaining, overaccommodating.

You put in all the effort. You carry the relationship emotionally. You try to be understanding, flexible, easy.

Underneath that is often the belief that love comes through performance and self-sacrifice. If I give enough, maybe I’ll finally feel chosen.

But abandoning yourself to keep connection usually creates the exact dynamic you’re afraid of.

3. Pulling away when someone healthy actually likes you.

A man is consistent, emotionally available, clear… and suddenly you feel bored, irritated, disconnected, or “not sure.”

For many people, love became associated with intensity, unpredictability, longing, or emotional struggle. So healthy connection can initially feel unfamiliar to the nervous system.

Not wrong. Just unfamiliar.

4. Ignoring red flags and staying too long.

Deep down, you know something feels off. But accepting reality would mean grieving, setting boundaries, risking rejection, and trusting there’s something healthier available to you.

That’s hard to do when being alone feels terrifying, or when your self-worth is tied to being chosen.

5. Constant anxiety, overthinking, and obsession in dating.

Checking your phone. Re-reading messages. Analyzing every interaction. Trying to decode how he feels.

Most of the time, this isn’t intuition.

It’s a nervous system struggling with uncertainty and trying to create control through thinking.

And the more you live in your head, the further you move from your actual clarity.

14/05/2026

A lot of women don’t realize they’re losing themselves.

It feels like care. It feels like love. It feels like doing the right thing.

But slowly, your attention stops being your own. Your mood depends on someone else. Your voice gets quieter.

There’s a difference between caring about someone and carrying them.

And most people were never taught that difference.

You’re allowed to care deeply and still stay rooted in yourself. You don’t have to disappear to be loved.

If this hits something, this is the work we do inside It’s Going To Happen.

Link in bio.

13/05/2026

First date went well. We’ll see how it goes 😌

11/05/2026

Fear of intimacy doesn’t always look like fear.

It can look like overthinking every text, pulling away when things get real, or losing attraction when someone is actually consistent.

That’s not random — it’s your nervous system protecting you.

If closeness once felt unsafe or inconsistent, real love can feel unfamiliar… even boring.

And you can’t force yourself to be open.

You can say all the “right” things and still feel disconnected — because you’re speaking from your head, not from inside yourself.

Real intimacy isn’t something you push.

It’s something you learn to feel safe inside of — slowly.

10/05/2026

It sounds small. Almost insignificant.

But it’s not.

Because that same pattern shows up everywhere — especially in dating.

Saying yes when you mean no.
Going along instead of speaking up.
Minimizing your preferences so you don’t feel like “too much.”

Trying to be easy, agreeable, low maintenance.

And then wondering why the connection feels flat… or why something feels off.

When you over-accommodate, you remove yourself from the interaction.

A healthy man can’t feel you if you’re constantly adjusting to him.
He can’t learn you, pursue you, or show up for you… if there’s nothing real to respond to.

And underneath that pattern is usually a belief that formed a long time ago:

“My needs are a burden.”
“I shouldn’t want too much.”
“I should just be grateful.”

That belief will quietly sabotage your dating life until you actually address it.

This isn’t about saying the right thing on a date.

It’s about believing — on a deep level — that you’re allowed to exist as you are.

Preferences, desires, opinions and all.

The women who feel the most magnetic aren’t the ones trying the hardest to be liked.

They’re the ones who are actually there.

Address

Website

https://www.jackieglaser.com/

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Jackie Glaser posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Contact The Business

Send a message to Jackie Glaser:

Shortcuts

Want your business to be the top-listed Gym/sports Facility?

Country:

City: