Anirudh & Ramkumar (2026)

24/04/2026

Happy birthday Anirudh!

Had a lovely day visiting temples down south.

Wrapping up the day with this javali.

06/04/2026

Anirudh had to memorize for school Tamizh Mozhi Vaazhthu by Mahakavi Subramanya Bharathi. So he tuned it to a ragamalika. On his own. Music helps him remember things.

03/04/2026

We don't know Malayalam. We found Anirudh learning it on his own. From the internet. For his love of Kathakali padams.

The art finds its people.

03/04/2026

Deepak was "the guy" at that big development centre for 15 years.

Then he was cut on Tuesday because the company wanted to save money.

Your office friends are suddenly gone.

Your team chat is deleted before you can say "goodbye."

Deepak thought he was his job title.

He joined the way2top program to figure out who he was without the badge.

The program helped him see that he had been chasing success for the wrong reasons.

He found he was staying for the logo on his mug, not the work on his screen.

He saw he had offloaded his entire personality to a corporation.

He fought it at first.

"I’ve given my life to this place," he said.

"But do you like the life you gave?" I asked.

Silence.

He realized he wasn't a "company man."

He was a problem solver who had stopped solving his own problems.

He’s now building a plan to launch his own consultancy.

Deepak finally knows who he is without the logo.

Don't wait for a layoff to find yourself.

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02/04/2026

The most loaded word in corporate life is "optional."

Sunita's leader sent a message on Thursday.

"Team, I'm doing a working session on Saturday.
Completely optional. Come if you can."

Sunita had her daughter's recital.
She didn't go.

Monday morning, her leader walked past her desk.
"Missed you on Saturday. We covered a lot."

That was it. No follow-up. No consequences.

Except two weeks later,
when the new project leads were announced.
Sunita wasn't on the list.

"We went with people who've shown extra commitment recently."

Recently meant Saturday.

That situation is worth examining.

Sometimes "optional" really is optional.
Many leaders genuinely mean it.
They're offering an opportunity, not administering a test.
The people who skip aren't penalised.

Sometimes it's not.
Sometimes "optional" means "I'm watching who shows up."
The words say choice. The consequences say otherwise.

Both versions exist.
The mistake is assuming it's always one.

I coached a leader who used the word "optional" and genuinely meant it.
He was hurt when his team told him they felt pressured.
He had no idea his tone carried that weight.

I also coached someone whose leader kept a mental scorecard of every optional event.
That was a different situation entirely.

Here's what I tell clients.

If you're unsure whether "optional" means optional,
ask a simple question.

"I have a commitment on Saturday.
Will it be a problem if I miss it?
I'm happy to catch up on Monday."

The answer tells you everything.

If they say "of course, no problem," take them at their word.
If they hesitate, or give you a non-answer, adjust accordingly.

You don't have to attend everything.
But you should understand the culture you're operating in.

The best professionals I've coached don't guess at the rules.
They clarify them.

That's not cynicism.
That's awareness.

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01/04/2026

Your leader says, "I trust you completely."
Then reviews every slide before it goes out.

Priya heard it in her first week.

"I trust you completely. Run with it."

She ran with it.

Built the deck. Sent it to the client.
Got a call at 9 PM.

"Why didn't you show me before sending?"

"You said you trusted me."

"I do. But I still need to see things before they go out."

That gap is worth examining.

Sometimes this is legitimate.
Your leader is still accountable for what goes out.
They're new to you.
They haven't seen enough of your work to calibrate.
Reviewing early deliverables isn't distrust. It's due diligence.

Sometimes it's not.
Sometimes the words say trust, but the behaviour says control.
Every email cc'd.
Every calendar checked.
Every call pre-approved.

Both versions exist.
The mistake is assuming it's always one.

I coached someone who was furious at her leader for reviewing her work.
When we looked closer, she'd been in the role five weeks.
Her leader was doing what most responsible leaders do early on.

I also coached someone whose leader was still reviewing every email after two years.
That wasn't onboarding. That was a pattern.

Here's what I tell clients.

Don't diagnose motive.
Track the trajectory.

Is the checking reducing over time?
Then it's calibration. Be patient.

Is it the same six months in as it was in week one?
Then raise it directly:
"I'd like to understand what it would take for me to send things without a pre-review."

That's not confrontation.
That's a professional asking a professional question.

The best leaders I've seen don't announce trust.
They demonstrate it by stepping back gradually.

And the best professionals don't wait to be trusted.
They create the conditions for it.

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31/03/2026

In school, I thought the United Nations was the most powerful body in the world.

Blue helmets. White building. 193 countries at one table.

If there was a conflict, the UN would step in.
If there was injustice, the UN would act.
If there was a war, the UN would stop it.

That's what I believed at fourteen.

The US is striking Iran.
Iran is striking back.
People are dying.

And the UN issues a statement.

"We call for restraint from all parties."

That's it.
That's the intervention.

193 countries.
Thousands of diplomats.
Billions in budget.

And the output is a sentence that changes nothing.

I coached a CEO last year.
Founder-led company.

On paper, he ran the company.
Strategy.
Hiring.
Product direction.
His name on the door.

In practice, two board members controlled the capital.
Every big bet needed their nod.
Every restructuring needed their mood.
Every bold move waited for a quarterly meeting
where they'd ask for "more data" and table it for ninety days.

He looked at me one evening and said:

"I have 4000 people who think I'm in charge.
I have two people who know I'm not."

That's the UN problem.
At every level.

The structure says one thing.
The power says another.

This CEO could set any vision.
He couldn't execute it without two people who didn't share it.

Title without power is a costume.

Whether it's the UN or the corner office.

The fourteen-year-old version of me thought power lived in institutions.
In buildings.
In titles with impressive words.

The version of me that's sat across from CEOs who can't make their own decisions knows better.

Power lives in two things.
The ability to act.
And the willingness to bear what follows.

Everything else is a nameplate.

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30/03/2026

Are you a victim of the ghost comparison trap?

Kiran joined the team in March.

By April, he'd heard the name "Ashok" seventeen times.

"Ashok used to send the report by Thursday."
"Ashok had a great relationship with the Mumbai team."
"That's not how Ashok would have approached it."

Ashok. The person who had the role before him.
The person who left.
The person who, apparently, could do no wrong.

These are the ghost comparison leaders.
They don't evaluate you against the role.
They evaluate you against a memory.

And memories are generous.
The predecessor's mistakes fade.
Their strengths get amplified.
They become a standard that no living person can match.

You're not competing with a colleague.
You're competing with a legend.
A legend who also, by the way, chose to leave.

Nobody mentions that part.

The predecessor left because something wasn't working.
But your leader remembers them as perfect.

And you, the one who actually showed up, who actually stayed,
will always be the person who isn't Ashok.

Here's the truth.

If Ashok was so great, why did he leave?
And if this leader treated Ashok the way they treat you,
maybe Ashok left for exactly this reason.

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29/03/2026

He can't leave his job because he can't afford to.
And he can't stay because it's killing him.

Vikram earns 32 lakhs a year.

EMI on the flat: 58,000.
Car loan: 22,000.
School fees for two kids: 45,000 a month.

He did the math one Sunday night.
His runway if he quit without another offer: forty-three days.

So he stays.

Not because the role fits.
Not because he's growing.
Because the 15th of every month keeps the whole structure standing.

This is the lifestyle lock.

You build a life around a salary.
Then the salary becomes the reason you can't change your life.

Every year, the gap between what you earn and what it costs to live makes the chain a little heavier.

Vikram came to us thinking he was trapped.
We showed him something different.

His reports mapped his behavioural patterns,
the strengths he'd been underusing,
and five career directions that matched who he actually was.
With pros, cons, and realistic transition paths.

Two of those options matched his salary requirements.
He'd just never seen them.

Because he was looking at the lock, not the key.

Same EMI. Different career. Different energy.

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28/03/2026

They didn't disagree with your email.
They just replied with your boss cc'd.

Arjun sent a simple email to Nitin.

"Can we push the vendor deadline by a week?
The specs aren't finalised."

Normal request.
Between peers.

Nitin replied.
But he cc'd Arjun's leader.

"Hi Arjun, I think we should stick to the original timeline.
Let's discuss. Cc'ing Meera for visibility."

Visibility.

It wasn't visibility.
It was a warning shot.

These are the cc escalators.
They never confront you directly.
They add your leader to the email.

Not because your leader needs to know.
Because they want your leader to see you struggling.

It's a power move disguised as process.

"I just wanted alignment."
"I thought leadership should be in the loop."
"It's better to be transparent."

None of these are the real reason.

The real reason is this:
When your leader is on the thread,
you can't push back as hard.
You become careful.
You become polite.
You back down.

And that's exactly what they wanted.

They didn't need your leader in the conversation.
They needed your leader watching you in the conversation.

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27/03/2026

The leaders who talk the most about trust
are usually the ones practicing it the least.

Priya's leader told her in the first week.

"I trust you completely. Run with it."

She ran with it.

Built the deck.
Sent it to the client.
Got a call at 9 PM.

"Why didn't you show me before sending?"

"You said you trusted me."

"I do. But I still need to see things before they go out."

That's not trust.
That's surveillance with a nicer name.

These are the performative trust leaders.
They say all the right words in your first month.
"Ownership."
"Autonomy."
"I don't micromanage."

Then they ask for a screenshot of your calendar.
Then they want to be cc'd on every email.
Then they schedule a "quick alignment" before every client call.

The words say trust.
The behaviour says control.

And when you push back, they say,
"I'm not micromanaging.
I just want to stay in the loop."

The loop is the micromanagement.
They just gave it a friendlier name.

Here's what nobody tells you.

A leader who actually trusts you doesn't announce it.
You just notice one day that they stopped checking.

If they have to keep saying "I trust you,"
they're reminding themselves, not you.

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