05/06/2026
I’ve recently shared how I’ve appreciated a testimony of author & speaker Joni Erickson Tada. She’s been paralyzed from the neck down for most of her life. Tada has experienced periods of immense, excruciating pain. She testifies that Jesus meets her at the deepest points of her pain.
Scripture points to the same truths shared in Joni’s testimony. Consider, for example, the story of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego in Daniel, Chapter 3:1-30. Nebuchadnezzar had ordered them to be thrown into the hottest fiery furnace to be burned alive. But instead of being incinerated, they encountered Jesus at the depth of their crisis. He stepped into their circumstances just in time. They emerged with not a singed hair or clothing fiber. The depth of the firey furnace couldn’t harm them in the presence of Jesus.
It’s true that Jesus meets you and me in the depth of our pain, in our most dire of circumstances. When He does, there can be no question as to who it is. He makes Himself known.
A few years ago, some in our church were reciting popular Serenity Prayer. I've always been uncomfortable with that prayer because it says we should "accept the things we cannot change." I don’t believe that’s Biblical. Indeed, we may very well be called to struggle or stand against things we cannot change. I began to look for Biblical truth that could replace this cultural prayer.
The Holy Spirit took me to Psalm 90, where I saw basically the same context as is found in the traditional Serenity Prayer. Here's what the Lord led me to write and teach from that passage of Scripture:
BIBLICAL PRAYER FOR SERENITY
(Based on Psalm 90)
Dear Lord,
You have been our dwelling place throughout all generations.
Before the mountains were born or You brought forth the whole world, You were God and forever You will be God.
You created us from dust and to dust we’ll return. A thousand years in Your sight are like a single day.
We have set our hurts, habits and hangups before You, our secret sins are in the light of Your presence.
Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.
Have compassion on Your servants, Lord. Satisfy us in the morning with Your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days.
Make us grateful for trials You allow in our lives, for even they have Your purposes to serve.
May Your will be shown to Your servants, and Your splendor to even our children.
May the favor of the Lord our God rest on us; making our efforts to live for You successful.
We pray these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and our Savior.
Amen.
Note that line, “Make us grateful for trials You allow in our lives, for even they have Your purposes to serve.” We can be sure that in the depths of our pain, we’ll find Jesus Christ. Moreover, we can be certain that the Lord allowed each of those trials to enter our lives and that they “have His purposes to serve.”
Feel free to teach this to your congregation! 😊