06/19/2026
I don’t cry often, but yesterday I shed a few tears.
Today was the last class for Leonor and Matteo Tapia. Their family is moving back to their home country, and saying goodbye was tougher than I expected.
One of the best parts of what we do is getting to watch kids grow up. Not just as martial artists, but as people.
When Leonor first walked through our doors, she was shy, quiet, and intimidated by just about everything. Over the years, I’ve watched her turn into one of the toughest kids in the room. More importantly, she became someone the other students respect, look up to, and genuinely care about.
Matteo has always been the opposite in many ways. Full of personality, energy, and always finding a way to make people laugh. He’s the kind of kid who makes every class a little more fun just by being there.
What got me today wasn’t just saying goodbye to them. It was seeing the other kids get emotional when they found out they were leaving. It reminded me that what we have here is bigger than martial arts. These kids build friendships, create memories, and become part of each other’s lives.
Leonor and Matteo, I hope you keep attacking life the same way you attacked the mats. Keep showing up. Keep working hard. Keep believing in yourselves. The confidence, discipline, and toughness you’ve built here will take you a lot further than any belt ever will.
As a coach, moments like this are bittersweet. You’re proud because you’ve watched them grow into amazing young people. You’re sad because they’re leaving. But that’s part of the journey.
Thank you for being part of our AllStar family.
We’ll miss you guys, but we’ll be cheering for you from a distance.
Once AllStar family, always AllStar family.