RAY Life Coaching

09/06/2026

We often think of love as a limited resource, like a pie or a battery. But what if love isn't finite? It's more like energy – as much as you're willing to share and receive back. Toxicity arises when the energy exchange is unbalanced.

09/05/2026

One more for the road!!

09/04/2026

Looking for polyamorous/CNM community, events, or relationship resources in Connecticut? You don’t have to figure out where to find your people alone.

There are two ways to get connected:

❤️ Join the Northeast CT CNM / Polyamorous Facebook Group for social gatherings, community connection, conversations, and upcoming events:
Join the Facebook Group

🌈 Prefer not to join Facebook? You can still stay connected to the event list and hear about polyamory/CNM-related gatherings, workshops, and learning opportunities through RAY Life Coaching.

Visit RAY Life Coaching Contact Page, enter your information, select “Something Else”, and type CNMPG in the “Tell me more…” box.

Come to connect. Come to learn. Come find community. 💜

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09/04/2026

Come visit me! I'll be presenting and tabling with prizes! Recp so I know you'll be there here - https://www.raylifecoaching.com/event-details/polyamory-table-lgbtq-health-night

Polyamory Table @ LGBTQ+ Health Night

09/03/2026

**Come represent polyamory with me. 🌈💜**

I’ll be participating in an **LGBTQ+ community event in New Haven, CT on Thursday, September 17**, where polyamory will have a seat at the table—and I’d love to see some of our community there.

I’ll be connecting with attendees, sharing resources, and presenting **Polyamory 101 from 7–8 PM.**

Want to know where, what’s happening, and how to join us?

👉 **Get the full event details & RSVP through RAY Life Coaching:**

Polyamory Representation @ LGBTQ+ Health Night
https://www.raylifecoaching.com/event-details/polyamory-representation-lgbtq-health-night?utm_source=chatgpt.com

09/03/2026

Leaving a familiar mindset can feel like giving up a drug. As you evolve, you might notice friends don't understand your new path. It's a tough realization that you need to find support elsewhere, building new connections as you grow.

09/02/2026

Your attachment style is not:
Your destiny
Your diagnosis
An excuse for harmful behavior
A label someone else gets to weaponize

It is a way of understanding what happens inside you when connection feels threatened.

Do you chase?
Over-explain?
Shut down?
People-please?
Become intensely independent?

Understanding the pattern creates more choice.

The next few weeks will focus on difficult conversations, attachment, and how to remain connected to yourself while relating to others.

https://www.raylifecoaching.com/events

09/02/2026

I’m researching several upcoming articles and discovering some beautiful, informative resources along the way.

Here is a short video about the Haudenosaunee - People of the Longhouse:
https://youtu.be/WpTWeGfXQTg?si=WDOCYEIWGiikj-yf

It reminded me how language shapes who we understand ourselves to be, and what we’re able to imagine, embody, and create together. Our language carries the stories of who we are, the people we belong to, and how we came to be where we are today.

If you feel inspired to share: What does this bring up about your own story, sense of belonging, or experiences within LGBTQIA+ or Polyamory/CNM communities?

I hope you enjoy it!
Ray - RAY Life Coaching, LLC

“This is a profile of the Haudenosaunee, by the Haudenosaunee, spea...

09/01/2026

Most people were never taught how to do conflict without collapse, control, shutdown, or explosion. That is learnable. And it changes everything. Looking to make conflict is part of your growth edge? Reach out in the comments, via DM, or visit www.raylifecoaching.com to learn more.