06/17/2026
One of the most powerful marriage lessons I ever learned is this:
No human being will ever be able to give you what only your Heavenly Father can.
I just watched a video from a pastor who shared that his wife prayed for him to change for 13 years. She found Jesus. He didn’t. She spent years wanting him to become someone different.
Then something happened.
They divorced.
And after the divorce, he gave his life to Jesus.
Why?
Because ultimately, transformation is an inside job between a person and God.
This hits close to home because Curt and I started our marriage as two broken people. We were both of the world. We got baptized together, but if I’m being honest, I went all in long before he did.
I could have spent years trying to fix him.
Trying to manage him.
Trying to control him.
Trying to make him become the man I thought he should be.
Instead, God taught me something far more powerful:
My assignment was not to change my husband.
My assignment was to become the woman God created me to be.
The greatest gift I ever gave my marriage was focusing on my relationship with Jesus.
Not seeking validation from Curt.
Not making him my identity.
Not making him my source.
Not expecting him to fill a place in my heart that only God could fill.
For years, I was looking for something from people that they were never designed to give me. When I finally found my Heavenly Father and understood who and whose I was, everything changed.
I stopped praying ABOUT my husband.
I started praying FOR my husband.
There’s a difference.
One sounds like complaining.
The other sounds like faith.
One focuses on what’s wrong.
The other releases God’s promises like arrows.
Isaiah says, “So shall My word be that goes forth from My mouth; it shall not return void.”
That’s how kingdom women pray.
Not from fear.
Not from frustration.
Not from control.
But from authority.
When you know who you are, people stop being your god.
They stop being your source.
They stop being your identity.
And that’s when you become free enough to truly love them.
If you’re tired of religious routines but your life isn’t producing the power, authority, miracles, peace, and transformation that Jesus promised, that’s exactly why I’m hosting the Warrior Woman Fire Encounter.
We’re going to talk about hearing God’s voice, spiritual authority, prayer that works, and how to release God’s promises over your family, your marriage, your children, your city, and your future.
🔥 Warrior Woman Fire Encounter
đź“… June 26, 2026
⏰ 10:00 AM - 3:00 PM
📍 Troy Country Club, Troy, Ohio
Lunch, workbook, prayer journal, markers, and your custom Warrior Woman shirt are included.
Doors close Friday.
The women who will experience the greatest breakthrough are not the women waiting for someone else to change.
They’re the women willing to let God change them first.