Chronic & Iconic Coaching

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"Mommy, are you okay?""Mommy's fine."That was my answer. The truth? I wasn't.I had become really good at falling apart i...
06/09/2026

"Mommy, are you okay?"

"Mommy's fine."

That was my answer. The truth? I wasn't.

I had become really good at falling apart in private and pulling myself together before anyone else woke up.

I was exhausted.
My body hurt.
My mind wouldn't stop racing.

But I kept saying I was fine.

Six years ago, I died from a sudden cardiac arrest. When people hear that part of my story, they usually focus on the miracle.

What changed me most wasn't dying. It was realizing how long I had been lying to myself before it happened.

I wasn't fine. I was just used to carrying too much.

The problem with later is that later isn't promised.

My newest blog, “Not Fine, Just Used to It”, is live.

It's a personal reflection on the moment I realized that "fine" and "okay" are not always the same thing.

If you've ever said "I'm fine" when you really weren't, this one is for you.

🔗 Link in comments / bio.

06/04/2026

WE’RE BACK... and we’re better! A lot has happened in the offseason.

I’ve watched them get stronger.
I’ve watched their confidence grow.
I’ve watched them commit to getting better.

83 days until the start of the season (not that anyone is counting 😂)

Conditioning starts June 8th at 2:30 PM.

I can’t wait to be back in the gym!

There’s a grief that comes with grieving your life while actively living it.It’s a grief that people don’t always unders...
06/02/2026

There’s a grief that comes with grieving your life while actively living it.

It’s a grief that people don’t always understand because from the outside, you still “look fine.”

This blog is one of the most personal things I’ve written in a while.

It’s about:
✨ how chronic illness changes you
✨ survival mode
✨ identity shifts
✨ learning to survive and heal
✨ outgrowing people
✨ protecting your peace
✨ rebuilding yourself after life humbles you

I think a lot of us imagined adulthood looking different than this BUT just because life didn’t happen the way we expected doesn’t mean it’s over.

Sometimes life falls apart so you can finally meet yourself underneath it all.

Read the full blog at the link in bio. 🤍

Imagine spending your whole life waiting to feel 100% certain before you move.Waiting until fear disappears.Waiting unti...
05/19/2026

Imagine spending your whole life waiting to feel 100% certain before you move.

Waiting until fear disappears.
Waiting until you know the outcome.
Waiting until you feel confident enough.
Waiting until you know for sure you will not fail.

You would spend your whole life standing still.

There are 86,400 seconds in a day. That’s 86,400 opportunities to breathe, reset, try again, choose differently, or take one step forward. Yet so much of our mental energy gets burned up replaying conversations, overthinking decisions, and second guessing ourselves into exhaustion.

Second guessing is usually not about the decision itself.

It’s often about:
• fear of making the “wrong” choice
• fear of judgment
• wanting certainty
• trying to stay emotionally safe

Maybe you are not actually indecisive. Maybe you are exhausted from carrying the pressure of trying to get everything “right.”

You are not stuck because you lack answers. You are stuck because you do not trust yourself enough to move in situations you cannot control.

If this resonates with you, go read the blog. I think it will hit home in a way you didn’t expect. 🤍

⬇️ Read the blog here ⬇️
https://www.chronicandiconiccoaching.com/post/waiting-to-feel-certain

❤️

05/13/2026

I had the opportunity to sit down with Amy Sanders on The Unblocked Woman Podcast and whew… this conversation was everything!

This conversation was personal. We talked about the things so many carry quietly:
�👎🏾 Burnout.�👎🏾 Pressure.�👎🏾 People-pleasing.�👎🏾 Survival mode.

One of the questions Amy asked me was about why I coach youth.

I coach youth because they deserve a better experience.

I think sometimes we forget how much kids are carrying emotionally. A lot of them are trying so hard to hold it together while still figuring out who they are.

They deserve to feel safe being themselves.
They deserve adults who listen without judgement.
They deserve guidance without shame.
They deserve correction without humiliation.
They deserve support without having to “earn” it first.

We get to break the cycle and prepare them to be emotionally intelligent young adults and that brings me so joy.

Catch the full episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/29LIYVO6GShkM4b8nit5ks?si=wgCMC-ZUR82HNgvYmsGDRA

10/15/2025

Maybe you’re tired…the kind that makes you stare at your ceiling at night wondering, “Is this really all there is?”

Maybe you’re holding everything together for everyone else, whispering “I’m fine” while you quietly break.

Maybe your storm looks different from mine—a diagnosis, a divorce, a loss, a shift—but the feeling is the same.

You’re standing in the middle of it, soaked and scared, wondering if the light will ever find you again. I can tell you this with certainty, it will. You have to stop running from the rain first.

The power of the pivot isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about remembering who you were before the storm taught you to forget. The woman I am now didn’t escape the fire. She learned how to carry the flame.

It’s time to stop surviving your storm and start rising from it. Join me for Step Out of the Storm and remember the woman you were before the world told you to forget.

https://www.chronicandiconiccoaching.com/step-out-of-your-storm

Have you ever felt like life keeps throwing storms your way and no matter how hard you try to find peace, you end up rig...
10/11/2025

Have you ever felt like life keeps throwing storms your way and no matter how hard you try to find peace, you end up right back in the chaos?

Join me for an empowering, soul-deep masterclass designed to help you step out of survival mode and into your next season of calm, clarity, and alignment.

This is a reset for your mind, body, and soul.
Inside this 90-minute experience, you will learn:

1️⃣ The 3 hidden ways chaos keeps you stuck in survival mode

2️⃣ How to identify your emotional triggers and ground in real time

3️⃣ Simple body-based practices to restore balance and regulate your energy

4️⃣ How to shift from reaction to response — and reclaim your personal power

5️⃣ Steps to embody peace as your new normal

This experience is for you if…
😔 You’re tired of constantly feeling “fine” while falling apart inside

😩 You’ve been living in survival mode and are ready to heal for real

🥺 You’re navigating chronic illness, stress, or burnout and craving calm

😌 You want to reconnect to your peace, power, and purpose — unapologetically!

You’ve weathered the storms — now it’s time to rise above them. Link 🔗 in bio.

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