06/17/2026
Statements like, โwe are a close linked familyโ, โmy mom is my best friendโ, โmy dad advises me on everythingโ, โmy siblings have to know everything about meโ , โshe is my ride or dieโ need some deeper evaluation.
๐๐ค๐ช ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฃ๐ค๐ฉ ๐๐ก๐ค๐จ๐. ๐๐ค๐ช ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ข๐๐จ๐๐๐!
Many of us confuse enmeshment with closeness. The difference is that closeness has clear boundaries and enmeshment has none. Everyone is in each otherโs business and there is an insidious element of control.
The tricky thing about enmeshment is it doesnโt show up as harm. It shows up as love, as loyalty, as support and thatโs why itโs so hard to see. Enmeshment is when there is no clear boundary as to where one person ends and the other begins.
Itโs a loving mother meddling in her sonโs relationships in the name of love, a caring father paying for his married daughterโs expenses and dictating how her household runs, itโs siblings getting involved in each otherโs lives in a way that diminishes individual autonomy.
This Saturday, SublimeFlow Jacinta and I are unpacking one of the most misunderstood dynamics affecting families, friendships, marriages, and parent-child relationships.
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Understanding Enmeshment in Families, Friendships, and Romantic Relationships
Saturday, June 20th, 12:00 pm EST/7:00 pm EAT
This is the conversation that will make you rethink what youโve called love, loyalty, family closeness, and โride or dieโ dynamics.
If you are a woman that is ready for this convo save your spot using the link below.
You donโt want to miss this conversation.
https://sublimeflow.com/enmeshments