08/21/2026
**Respect the Stripes đđŚ**
Youth hockey needs referees â and right now, we need them more than ever.
There is a real shortage of officials in youth hockey, and many of the referees stepping onto the ice are **young people themselves**. Some are teenagers who are learning, gaining experience, and doing their best to keep the game safe and fair for our kids.
Hereâs something we all need to remember: **referees are human.**
They will miss a call. They will make a mistake. They may see a play differently than a coach, parent, or player. Thatâs part of sports. We expect our young players to make mistakes while they learn â our officials deserve that same patience and understanding.
Before yelling at a referee, remember that there is a young person under that helmet who is trying to do a difficult job. Ask yourself: *Would I want my child to be treated that way while learning something new?*
If we continue to criticize, yell at, and disrespect officials, fewer young people will want to become referees. And without referees, **there is no game.**
Parents, coaches, and players â let's set the example. Teach our kids to respect the stripes, accept mistakes, and understand that hockey is bigger than any single call.
**Support our referees. Encourage them. Thank them. And give them the same grace we expect for our kids.**
Because at the end of the day, we're all here for the same reason:
đ **To give kids the opportunity to play the game they love.**
