06/16/2026
This may be an unpopular opinion, but in our family, we don't celebrate the wins — we celebrate the drive.
Some of our favorite races are races Axel didn't even win.
For example, Lui's favorite race this year was Axel's Titans Jr. 160 race. Axel finished 2nd, but what a drive. That race tested his skills, his grit, and his determination.
Last year, he got a DNF after being hit under caution and breaking his suspension. But he kept driving that car, bouncing through every turn, holding onto 1st place until the final two laps when the suspension finally gave out completely. We were incredibly proud of that drive.
On the flip side, one of Axel's most disappointing races this year ended with a heat race win. He crossed the line first, but he was blocking, and didn't race the way we expect him to. We didn't celebrate that win. We had a conversation instead. These are kids, and they're still learning.
The best part? He came back out for the main, raced respectfully, raced hard, and earned the feature win. That win we celebrated.
Kids racing isn't about the plastic trophies.
It's training for whatever comes next, whether that's Midgets, Legends, Club Racing, or even the big dream of professional racing. This is where they learn the fundamentals. This is where we, as parents, have the opportunity to teach them how to be both respectful drivers and great competitors.
Someone said to me at the track on Sunday, "I always hear you and Lui telling Axel to drive with respect, and I absolutely love that."
We'll never stop saying it.
✅ Did you drive with RESPECT?
✅ Did you hold your line and not back down?
✅ Did your car make it out in one piece in all avoidable situations?
✅ Did you try your hardest?
✅ Did you learn something?
Celebrate the drive, not the wins.