12/31/2022
It’s a new year and so as always it’s time to start thinking about making resolutions and setting goals for yourself. In order to set goals that really matter I want to propose a method I learned about that can help to bring more clarity and meaning to them. This method can help you better understand why you want these things. It can add purpose and motivation. This is important because, as we all know, there will come a point where we start to question why we set these goals in the first place. A resolution is a shift in mindset and focus - a decision to do something. A goal is a destination or desired outcome. Decide to set a path and follow it to your destination. Without doing this we will wind up at a destination or in a situation we may not want to be in. We are all on a path leading somewhere so I am asking you to take control of your actions to lead you to a more desirable destination. I am here to help make the journey more comfortable, to make the effort you give each day more effective and to make the process as efficient as it can be. Motivation alone is not enough. I will help inspire you by sharing my own experiences and stories I’ve heard from others. I will show you what you are capable of and how strong you really are.
As we start a new year and you begin the next journey, I want to share a bit of advice: Let patience be your biggest strength. Let self-love guide you in the decisions you make. Be thankful for every day you have and make the best of your time and efforts. Avoid excessive distractions and too much comfort. Be nicer to others and more kind to yourself. Stay strong.
And now, The Method:
This method for establishing your resolutions and determining your goals involves making 2 lists. A list of things you DO want and a list of things you DO NOT want. Below I will make an example of what your list might look like. You do not need to share this list with anyone but please keep it close so you can refer to it regularly (maybe even daily for the first 45 days of the new year). Understanding what we don't want helps us better understand what we do want. It brings clearer focus to what's important. We hopefully discover what's holding us back and find out what we need to do.
DON’T WANT:
1. Low energy
2. Physical discomfort
3. Poor health and immunity
4. Held back by depression and anxiety
5. To feel stuck in a job/life I don’t enjoy
DO WANT:
1. Creative personal and professional exploration
2. Accomplishments I am proud of
3. Strong and aesthetic physique
4. Healthy social life
5. More enjoyment from life