05/27/2026
Celebrated 25 years sober the other day. No doubt the best decision of my life...I wouldn't have the life I have now if I hadn't kicked alcohol. And yeah, maybe I traded addictions and plugged in jiu jitsu and rock climbing and any number of other hobbies instead. Still a good trade.
Two things helped me re-frame my addiction:
1) Addiction is action in the face of consequences
2) For me, it’s like having an allergy. Some people's biology doesn't let them eat peanut butter. Mine doesn't let me drink.
If you've been looking to get sober from any substance, you can do it. There's lots of ways to get there. There's people who can help you. You just need to take the first step. Just do it. You'll be better for it.
If you've been sober and fallen off the wagon, it's OK. All is not lost, and you didn't waste those years of sobriety. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and make the choice, the decision, to be sober again. Reach out to whomever you need to.
Addiction is a complicated issue, with genetics and mental health and social environment factors, all mashed together into a sloppy soup. But it still comes down to making a choice to get sober, getting the help you need, and to keep trying.
I believe in you. You've got this.