12/24/2024
Hi friends - I am thinking about all of you who celebrate Christmas or Hanukkah and wishing for you to experience a tiny joy, since the expectation of more while you are grieving can feel totally unrealistic and rage-inducing. My tiny joys included my mom's Christmas cactus blooming today, a gorgeous sunset at a local park, and seeing this great blue heron at that same park. I hope the twinkle of lights or candles, a moment in nature, a delicious cookie or other treat, a memory of your mom, or the excitement of your children can give you that fleeting moment of joy. If it happens, embrace it! If not, it's all okay -- you can't do it wrong. It's perfectly normal and okay to be sad and grumpy (and exhausted!) through the holidays. You're doing a great job (no matter how it feels!!) and I'm rooting for you. Love, Susanna