01/01/2026
On December 31, 1999, while my friends were getting ready to celebrate the new year, I was in a hospital preparing to say goodbye to my mom.
On January 1, 2000, she passed away after a three-year battle with cancer.
At 18 Years old, I was old enough to understand what death meant, but too young to understand how deeply it would shape the way I moved through life. Looking back, that may have been the start of me constantly pushing through, moving fast, working harder, and never slowing down long enough to feel or process what I was carrying.
That pace became my normal.
Then, on New Year’s Eve 2024, my wife and I were heading to the hospital again. This time, not to say goodbye, but to meet our son. After nearly 24 hours, we met Jackson at 11:48 p.m. on New Year’s Day.
A day that carried a quiet heaviness for 25 years suddenly brought light back into the world.
This year has taught me something I am still learning.
I do not need to rush to be effective. I do not need to push through to move forward. If I want to be the best version of myself for my family and the people I serve, I need to slow down, pause more, and be intentional with my time and energy.
So my theme for this year is simple.
Slow down. Pause. Reflect. Be present.
Today, I get to celebrate my mom and my son on the same day. I know they never met in person, but I believe they met in passing as Jackson came into the world.
Wishing you and your families a healthy and meaningful new year.