Hritik Singh

Hritik Singh I teach people how to date logically and smartly. Feel free to book a session with me if you are experiencing dating/relationship issues.

07/15/2026

Not too long ago, “TikTok-style” content - performative, engagement-bait, staged, was treated as an embarrassment and was relentlessly mocked. Today it’s marketed as a career, celebrated as creativity, and sold as something young people should aspire for. That transformation tells you everything you need to know about the state of our culture.

There’s nothing wrong with documenting your life. In fact, it is beautiful when you haven’t surrendered your agency, dignity, and self-worth to the algorithm.

What’s disturbing is manufacturing your life for an audience - turning private moments into content isn’t self-expression, it’s self-commercialisation. And when your relationships, vacations, and even your most intimate experiences are planned around engagement metrics, you have stopped living your life and have become a slave to external validation.

Calling that “being a creator” doesn’t make it any less pathological. It just makes the pathology socially acceptable.

07/12/2026

At this point, I’m convinced that “CoNtEnT CrEaTiOn” is going to be one of the biggest contributors to the mental health epidemic over the next decade.

The rate with which the “influenzaaas” are increasing is concerning and even sickening.

Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not talking about people who actually have something to teach. The internet gave us unprecedented access to scientists, psychologists, doctors, artists, entrepreneurs, athletes, musicians, comedians and experts who spent decades mastering their craft. Social media simply became the medium through which they could reach the world. That’s not what I’m talking about.

I’m talking about the epidemic of people who confuse having a smartphone with having something worth broadcasting. Somewhere along the way, “creating content” stopped meaning creating something of value from your heart and started meaning documenting your very existence in a way that pleases the algorithm.

Wake up? Content.
Make coffee? Content.
Go to the gym? Content.
Buy a new car? Content.
Get engaged? Content.
Get married? Congratulations. You are now a couple’s content page.
Have a baby? Congratulations again. Your child has unknowingly become part of the content strategy.

We have somehow reached a point where simply existing in public has become a profession.

The algorithm doesn’t reward wisdom. It rewards attention. And attention is far easier to capture through outrage, vanity, thirst traps, fake pranks, staged generosity, scripted polarising interviews, exaggerated emotions, and clickbait-y thumbnails than through actual competence.

This kind of content is deliberately designed to hijack people’s attention and ‘rot their brain’, which in turn leads to more consumption of similar low-quality content which in turn leads to more creation of cheap content. Notice the vicious cycle?

And here’s the irony. I don’t think this system is even good for the creators.

Yes, some make absurd amounts of money. But when your identity becomes tied to views, likes, comments, shares, and followers, you slowly stop asking, “What do I believe?” and start asking, “What will perform?” That’s a dangerous trade. Because slowly and gradually, your authenticity gets replaced by a persona, integrity gets compromised, and self-confidence gets replaced by truckloads of insecurities, fuelling mental health challenges.

The only guaranteed winners in this entire ecosystem are the billion-dollar companies that monetise every second of our attention.

I genuinely don’t know what the solution is. But I refuse to believe that this is a healthy direction for society. What exactly is the message that we are giving to our coming generation - visibility matters more than competence? Attention matters more than contribution?

04/22/2026

We’re slowly drifting into a culture of low-effort living and calling it “enjoying life.”

More and more people today don’t have hobbies that demand depth, patience, or mastery. Instead, most of our stimulation comes from things that require almost nothing from us - scrolling, aesthetic café hopping, curated trips, and momentary highs designed to be posted, not lived.

And on the surface, it looks harmless. Even desirable. But underneath, something important is eroding.

When you remove activities that require sustained focus, you also remove the very conditions that build discipline, cognitive depth, emotional resilience, and a sense of earned self-respect.

Without these, we don’t just lose “productive hobbies,” we lose the ability to think independently. And that has real consequences,

1) A population that cannot focus deeply cannot think critically. A population that cannot think critically is far easier to influence, manipulate, and polarise. Intellectual laziness doesn’t just affect personal growth, it affects the quality of collective decision making, including who we choose to lead us.

2) Then there’s the modeling. What are we implicitly teaching the next generation?

That validation matters more than capability.
That optics matter more than substance.
That being seen doing something is more valuable than actually becoming something.

We are replacing the quiet satisfaction of mastery with the loud, fleeting dopamine of attention. And the cost is subtle but significant: a life that looks full, but feels empty when the noise dies down.

Btw, this isn’t an argument against rest, travel, or beauty. Those things have their place. But when they become the entire source of fulfilment, we trade depth for stimulation.

03/06/2026

People used to live their lives and “content” (if any) was simply a consequence of that life, nowadays, for a lot of people, it’s the other way round - they pre-decide what would get the most eyeballs and then manipulate their lives in order to manufacture that content. How is that not concerning, if not sickening?

How many pre-wedding shoots would actually happen if people were banned from posting those pictures? How many people would attend concerts if the venues had a strict no-camera policy? How many people would go to trending cafés if the outlets didn’t allow photography? This isn’t to say that everyone participating in such things is solely doing it for their Instagram feeds but isn’t it deeply unsettling that a large population probably is?

If you don’t at all align with something and yet, feel compelled to do it, even ‘less than’ in case you don’t do it, and therefore, eventually end up doing it, who exactly is making your decision for you? You or the algorithm?

In addition to this, how much self-respect and internal security can you realistically maintain when every waking day, you are getting more and more disconnected and eventually divorced from your authentic self because of the micro violations of integrity that you practice on a daily basis?

02/20/2026

HAVE THE HARD CONVERSATIONS!

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𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨/𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱 𝘪𝘴𝘴𝘶𝘦𝘴, 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘧𝘳𝘦𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘋𝘔 𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘢 𝘴𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘮𝘦. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

The only dating advice that you need, besides self-improvement, is authentic self-expression. ⁣

But authenticity demands courage, courage to walk away from relationships if our needs are not being met. ⁣

Authenticity requires practicing deep intimacy with ourselves so that we feel confident in our own skin (which includes becoming best friends with our flaws, insecurities, inadequacies) without seeking the approval of other people.⁣

When we are fully expressing ourselves, we are conveying to our partners, ourselves, and the Universe that, “My needs matter. I matter. I’m worthy of a great relationship where my needs are honoured.”⁣

If you minimise yourself just because you feel like expressing your needs makes you appear weak and “needy,” spend some time exploring from where did you adopt this belief? Was it the dating gurus on YouTube? Did your friends teach you to “play it cool?” Did society teach you to hide yourself in a relationship? ⁣

Expressing ourselves despite the presence of fear of abandonment is one of the greatest forms of self-love. ⁣

And remember that, you only “scare off” the people who are not meant for you by being authentic. Walk head high into the difficult conversations knowing that if it’s the right relationship, it will deepen post expression, whereas, if it’s the wrong relationship, it will dissolve post expression. You win in both the situations.⁣

The declaration of what you need is the filtration process. Learn to be aggressively yourself. Do not shapeshift.

The difference between you and someone who is great at dating is not that they do not attract the wrong people, the difference is that they don’t waste their time on the wrong people because they are authentic from the get-go and are courageous enough to stand behind what they say they want.

02/08/2026

Alignment over approval:

Pictures of pre-wedding shoots, endless wedding functions, and honeymoon photos flooding social media can quietly mess with your head. Without you even realising it, they can make you feel that if you aren’t aligned with this path then something must be wrong with you. They also subtly push the idea that marriage is the only “successful” life trajectory.

Before I go further, this isn’t a marriage-bashing post or a “stop posting pictures” rant. This is about establishing objectivity and encouraging alignment.

Objectivity:

Almost no one who is genuinely content in their singlehood posts about it (unless they are a content creator). On the other hand, almost everyone who is married (happily or unhappily) posts highlight reels. Why? Because it looks romantic, glamorous, and is aggressively rewarded by society. The result is a deeply skewed perception of what the “right” life path looks like. Social media does not reflect reality, it reflects what gets applause.

Alignment:

This conversation isn’t about whether you should or shouldn’t get married. It’s about living in alignment with your true nature, your priorities, and your vision of a good life, rather than unconsciously following a script. For some people, self-abandonment looks like avoiding marriage. For others, it looks like getting married. So let this sink in: there is no universal path to fulfilment. There never was.

Even more importantly, fulfilment doesn’t necessarily come from the path you choose, it comes from how you show up to that path, day in day out. And here’s the age-old truth that still holds: know thyself. Simple to say, painfully hard to do.

10/27/2025

HOW TO MOVE ON WITHOUT CLOSURE?⁣
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“Closure is not something that you give me, closure is something that I offer to myself.”⁣⁣⁣
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If you believe that you cannot heal without receiving closure from someone outside of you, you have put your healing in someone else’s decision. How is that an empowering belief? And if it’s not an empowering belief, why would you carry it with you?⁣⁣⁣
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Remember, acceptance doesn’t mean that you want, desire, or like the situation that you are in, it just means that you are not going to waste your time in trying to change the unchangeable.⁣⁣⁣⁣
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Moving on involves surrendering to the unknown and being okay with some unsolved puzzles. You DON’T need to know everything in order to move on.⁣⁣⁣⁣
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If you can fix your mindset around closure, someone not offering you closure might as well become a catalyst in your recovery.⁣⁣⁣⁣
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Remember, you don’t move on once you finally extract the “truth” from the other person, you move on once you stop chasing your recovery in someone else’s story/narrative.

𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨/𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱 𝘪𝘴𝘴𝘶𝘦𝘴, 𝘣𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘢 𝟷:𝟷 𝘤𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘮𝘦 (𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘪𝘯 𝘣𝘪𝘰).⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

What do you get out of working with me?⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

1) Clarity⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

2) Ability to take personal responsibility⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

3) A lifelong coach to help you with challenges

4) Tools and action steps for personal development⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

5) Customised program for your needs⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

6) Tangible progress⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

7) Someone to hold you accountable and ensure your progress⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

8) Feedback/re-calibration in case you are unable to make progress⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

9) Healthy, strong, and loving relationship with yourself⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

10) Effective dating/relationship skills⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

11) Stronger boundaries which honour you

Being discerning and wise in dating means resisting the temptation to pursue people who are bad for you and your well-be...
09/24/2025

Being discerning and wise in dating means resisting the temptation to pursue people who are bad for you and your well-being even if you are wildly attracted to them. Yes, this is easier said than done, but once you start properly and appropriately valuing yourself, your time, and your energy, you will stop investing in people who aren’t choosing you.

Let me know your questions in the comments!

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𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨/𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱 𝘪𝘴𝘴𝘶𝘦𝘴, 𝘣𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘢 𝟷:𝟷 𝘤𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘮𝘦 (𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘪𝘯 𝘣𝘪𝘰).⁣⁣
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What do you get out of working with me?⁣⁣
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1) Clarity⁣⁣
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2) Ability to take personal responsibility⁣⁣
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3) A lifelong coach to help you with challenges⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

4) Tools and action steps for personal development⁣⁣
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5) Customised program for your needs⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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6) Tangible progress⁣⁣
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7) Someone to hold you accountable and ensure your progress⁣⁣
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8) Feedback/re-calibration in case you are unable to make progress⁣⁣
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9) Healthy, strong, and loving relationship with yourself⁣⁣
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10) Effective dating/relationship skills⁣⁣⁣⁣
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11) Stronger boundaries which honour you

It is not your job to fix, change, or rescue someone who isn’t interested in getting fixed, changing, or being rescued. ...
09/10/2025

It is not your job to fix, change, or rescue someone who isn’t interested in getting fixed, changing, or being rescued. I get it, when you have invested so much of your time, energy, and resources in someone, you want a good return on your investment and finally have the type of relationship that you have always desired with the other person.

However, if have consistently pushed yourself beyond your limits and boundaries (which, by the way, isn’t healthy or effective) and are still not seeing any *consistent* progress or change in the other person which makes you feel unworthy, frustrated, exhausted, and drained, your best course of action is to accept reality as it is, and ask yourself, “Considering this person isn’t going to change, what changes?”

What needs to change moving forward might be your type of relationship with the other person, your expectations from them, your exposure to them, your emotional investment in them, or something else, you decide. But what you mustn’t do is continue the same pattern and expect a different result.

Also, if you *constantly* find yourself in these lopsided dynamics where you are the one who is trying to make things work and the other person doesn’t care about the relationship or just won’t/can’t change, it maybe pointing to your own codependent tendencies where you derive your value from trying to fix a “wounded soul” - “If I can make this person better and get them to choose me, I will feel phenomenal about myself.”

Journaling prompts:

“What is my earliest memory in life where I have seen or experienced similar dynamics? How did that make me feel about myself?”
“Why do I feel unworthy of an easy love?”
“What is my relationship to ‘receiving’?”
“Am I applying ‘relationships are hard work’ in the wrong context?”
“If I let go of control, what am I scared of happening?”
“How can I stop disconnecting from reality and see other people exactly as they are?”

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