03/03/2026
At the end of Megillat Esther, after Mordechai saves the entire nation, the text describes him in a surprising way:
רצוי לרוב אחיו
Accepted by most.
Most.
Not all.
Even Mordechai did not receive unanimous approval.
This is deeply psychological.
If you are leading…
If you are growing…
If you are setting boundaries…
If you are making courageous decisions…
Someone will disagree.
Our nervous systems crave belonging. We want to be liked. We want to be approved of.
But chasing 100% approval is a fast track to anxiety and self-betrayal.
Leadership requires:
Regulation.
Values clarity.
The ability to tolerate being misunderstood.
Thick skin.
Soft heart.
Stop waiting for unanimous applause before doing what you know is right.