05/09/2025
In A Happy N' Healthy Relationship, You Become Two…
There are all those happy and balanced people out there living their "happily ever after" together.
This does actually exist.
So…
What's their secret?
If you're expecting this long-never-ending list of their whats and hows on making their relationship be and feel as amazing as it does to them, you won't find it here.
Although, what you will find here, is this short, sweet, and right-on-the-mark answer to what the "secret" to a healthy and happy relationship is.
And here it is:
We give ourselves, first and foremost, whatever it is we truly need and want, without expecting our partner (or anyone or anything else for that matter to provide it for us). We are the source of "giving it all" to and for ourselves.
And then, from that "my own cup is genuinely filled and overflowing with goodness" space…
We can and do naturally and willingly share with our spouse the best of us from this space - our genuine love and appreciation and "healthy n' happy positive energy, etc." that then only leads all of this goodness to grow even more, within and with ourselves and with our partner.
When each person in a relationship gives in this way, from this connected and special space, the relationship simply "magically"works and flows a whole lot better, smoother and more joyfully.
Within this kind of relationship, we - individually and as a couple - experience a happier, truer, fuller, more fulfilling, rewarding, meaningful, richer relationship.
To keep your relationship rockin' and rollin' with your spouse or partner in life, you want to continue satisfying, giving to and filling yourself up first with everything you feel you want and need (from your significant other or anybody or anything else in life).
What ends up happening when you give you first is your spouse "follows your lead" and gives you what you're already giving yourself, and what is given to you thereafter is of much richer quality than if you were to "demand/force" it be given to you from him/her.
And Remember...
You are still you, a whole and independent person; You have your own version of happiness, your own desires, needs, opinions, beliefs, gifts, talents, capabilities, powers, uniqueness, etc.
"In A Happy N' Healthy Relationship, You Become Two" simply means you remain true to your own favorite self, and your own happiness and well-being, also within your relationship with another. You both are two whole individual beings, and the both of you choose to stay that way together within your relationship with each other.
The Key…
The key to a lasting happy and healthy relationship is that you don't do things together with your partner "without yourself", but rather "with yourself," together with your partner.
Doing things together with yourself - in alignment with your real feelings and wants, and with your own inner compass - really is the secret to sustainably experiencing a happy n' healthy relationship with yourself, your significant other, and with any other person or thing (money, career, exercise, etc.) for that matter.
One of the bountiful beauties of this secret is that it remains solidly and consistently true all throughout our lives - it is simply law.
Enjoy using it abundantly!🥰
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