08/21/2026
I’ve been thinking a lot about how easy it is to get stuck in what I call the Silver Bullet Loop—trying one parenting strategy after another, hoping this will finally be the thing that changes everything.
The problem isn’t that the advice is bad. It’s that we can spend so much time consuming tips, scripts, and strategies that we never get enough quiet to really understand what’s happening with our child—or with us.
I wrote about why that keeps us stuck, and what can help us move toward more lasting change, deeper connection, and clearer parenting.
Sharing my latest Substack here.
Why you can spend years working on your parenting and feel like nothing changes