09/04/2026
Fear rarely introduces itself as fear.
More often, it sounds responsible, practical and even wise. It tells us, “This isn’t the right time,” or “I should be grateful for what I have,” or “I need to know exactly how this will work before I explore it.” Those concerns can be legitimate. There are real obligations, financial pressures and consequences to consider before making a significant change. But sometimes these reasonable thoughts become a way of avoiding any investigation beyond the structure we already know. They keep one employer, one career or one source of income responsible for our security, identity, purpose and future.
𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐚 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐛𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧 𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐫𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫! The question is not necessarily whether you should abandon the well you have. It may simply be whether you have taken the time to develop another source of support, possibility or direction before circumstances force you to do so. Which well in your life may be carrying too much?
If this question is hitting closer to home than expected, you are welcome to message me privately.
