08/05/2026
Living with the Seasons
This weekend I spent time with college friends who have become family over the years.
For two days we wandered through Chinatown, shared hot pot, discovered a wonderful mango dessert, laughed until our cheeks hurt, and spent time at Lollapalooza. Surrounded by music, we watched thousands of people, many just beginning their own seasons of life.
What struck me most wasn’t the festival itself. It was realizing how much our conversations have changed.
In our twenties, we talked about careers, relationships, and where life might take us.
Now, in our fifties, we talk about our parents, our health, retirement dreams, and how precious time together has become.
One of our dear friends is facing cancer. Her courage reminded all of us that none of us knows how many summers we are given. We didn’t spend the weekend dwelling on illness. Instead, we celebrated friendship, created new memories, and promised not to let another year pass before gathering again.
As I grow older, I’m grateful not only for friendships that have lasted decades, but also for the new friendships that continue to enter my life. Our hearts never lose their capacity to welcome new people, no matter the season.
Perhaps this is one of the quiet gifts of growing older.
We begin to understand that life’s greatest treasures aren’t extraordinary events, but ordinary moments shared with people who have walked beside us through many seasons, and those who are just beginning to share the journey.
This weekend reminded me that every season has something to teach us. Youth brings possibility. Midlife brings perspective. Family and friendship make every season richer.
Here’s to family, old friends, new friends, and making time for the people who matter most.
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Living with the Seasons
Dr. Anh Tran, L.Ac., M.S.O.M.
Points of Wellness Acupuncture