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04/16/2026

6 things God has taught me about grief…
that most people won’t tell you

1. Healing doesn’t mean “moving on.”
It means learning to carry love and loss at the same time.
(2 Corinthians 12:9)

2. You don’t “get over” grief.
You walk through it-slowly-
with God holding you together.
(Isaiah 41:10)

3. Feeling deeply doesn’t make you weak.
It means you loved deeply.
And God meets you right there.
(Isaiah 40:29)

4. You were never meant to carry this alone.
God sees every part of your pain
and heals what feels broken.
(Psalm 147:3)

5. Even when you feel abandoned… you’re not.
“I will never leave you nor forsake you.”
(Hebrews 13:5)

6. Grief isn’t linear.
It comes in waves-
and God isn’t overwhelmed by any of it.
(Matthew 5:4)

Most people will tell you to be strong and move on.

But God…
He stays with you in it.

03/26/2026

You’re not stuck in your grief.
You’re overwhelmed.

And no one told you how much grief lives in the body…

The tension.
The racing thoughts.
The exhaustion.
The feeling of being disconnected- even from God.

You’ve been trying to “be strong”…
to pray through it…
to think your way out…

But your body is still holding everything in.

And that doesn’t mean you’re failing.
It means you haven’t felt safe enough to release it yet.

God is not disappointed in your process.
He is near to you in it.

“Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” ~Matthew 11:28

You don’t have to carry this alone anymore🩵

03/25/2026

Grief doesn’t follow a straight path.
It doesn’t ask for permission before it shows up again.

One moment you’re okay…
and the next, a memory, a smell, a song-
and it all comes rushing back.

That doesn’t mean you’re going backwards.
It means your heart is still processing what it’s lost.

Healing isn’t about “getting over it.”
It’s about learning how to carry it-with God.

Even in the waves, He is steady.
Even in the silence, He is near.

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” ~Psalm 34:18

If you’re in a wave right now… you’re not alone.
God is holding you through it🩵

01/02/2026

Stepping into a new year without the person you love can feel overwhelming. The world keeps moving, but everything around you feels unfamiliar- quieter, heavier, changed.

Grief isn’t something you just move past. It’s something you learn to live with. Some days, even breathing feels hard in a life that no longer looks the way it used to.

But God is there in the learning.
In the pauses.
In the moments where you’re figuring out how to take the next breath.

He doesn’t rush you or expect you to be okay. He gently meets you in the ache and helps you breathe again- one moment, one day, one step at a time- even in a world that feels so different now.

“The Spirit of God has made me; the breath of the Almighty gives me life.” ~Job 33:4

If you’re entering this new year carrying loss, know this: you are not alone, and God is with you as you learn how to live-and breathe-again.

12/31/2025

Grief can make you feel like you have to be strong on your own- like carrying the weight quietly is the only way forward. But you were never meant to walk through this alone.

God doesn’t rush your healing or ask you to have it all together. He simply invites you to bring the pain to Him and let Him walk with you through it. As you step into 2026, this is your reminder that you don’t have to carry the grief by yourself.

“My Presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.” ~Exodus 33:14

If healing feels overwhelming, let this be the year you stop carrying it alone and start letting God hold you.

12/20/2025

Grief has a way of making you feel shattered- like everything familiar has fallen apart. But what feels like brokenness is often the very place God begins His rebuilding work.

He meets you in the ache.
He gathers the pieces gently.
And He restores you in ways you couldn’t see while the pain was loud.

You’re not weak for hurting.
You’re not failing because you’re still healing.
You are becoming- slowly, quietly, and beautifully- right where God is working the most.

“to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.”
~Isaiah 61:3

12/12/2025

Grief isn’t a straight line… it’s a rhythm.
Some days the waves feel heavier.
Some days the sun breaks through a little easier.
Both are normal. Both are holy. Both are healing.

You don’t have to rush your process or explain your emotions.
God understands every tear, every memory, every quiet moment you hold inside.
Healing isn’t about “moving on” -it’s learning how to carry love and loss in the same heart.

If today feels heavy, be gentle with yourself.
If today feels lighter, receive that peace without guilt.
Every day is part of the journey… and you’re doing better than you think.

“His mercies never end; they are new every morning.”
-Lamentations 3:22-23

12/10/2025

To the woman who’s grieving in silence… I see you.
God sees you.
And nothing about your pain disqualifies you from healing.

Grief has a way of making you feel guilty for needing time…
ashamed for still hurting…
and isolated from people who “don’t get it.”

But God isn’t rushing you.
He isn’t disappointed in you.
He isn’t asking you to pretend you’re okay.

He’s drawing near.
He’s comforting the parts of you that feel shattered.
And He’s walking with you through every wave of emotion.

Your healing isn’t loud.
It isn’t linear.
But it is happening- even when you don’t feel it.

If you’re navigating grief and longing for peace, hope, and support… you’re not alone.
You can heal. You can breathe again. And God will carry you until you can walk steady.

“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
~Psalms 147:3

11/29/2025

2 months without you, Dad.
2 months of navigating a world that feels different without your presence.
I’m learning, slowly, that grief and love walk side by side.

If you are in a season of grief- whether it’s recent or something you’ve been carrying for a long time- please know this: you are not alone. Every feeling is valid. Every wave is part of the process.

Bring your pain, your questions, and the heaviness of your heart to God.
He doesn’t expect you to “be strong” or pretend you’re okay.
He doesn’t ask you to forget or move on.
He invites you to lay it all at His feet.
That is what He wants- to carry you through every moment you feel like you can’t carry yourself.

It’s important to allow yourself to feel.
To grieve honestly.
To not push the emotions aside just because the world says it’s time to “get over it.”
God heals in layers, in His timing, and He walks every step with you.

Psalm 34:18
“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”

11/11/2025

When you know who you are in Christ, you stop seeking validation from the world.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”
-2 Corinthians 5:17

11/09/2025