03/04/2023
Change is scary as hell. The fear of how bad it was going to be, the challenges I'd face, etc.. kept me in a toxic situation for too many years. Gave me health issues, so much emotional stress, and I lost some pretty important people, all because I was too afraid to take that step.
I had to get to my breaking point to take action. It was so scary, I had no idea how I'd make it through or make it on my own and most times I felt so alone. The situation seemed more toxic than ever for awhile and sometimes felt like it would never end. Now that it's over, I only wish I would've taken action sooner. Our co-parenting relationship is getting better and better and I'm getting closer and closer to the life I want for me and my babies.
I'm finding this true for almost every aspect of my life. Change is scary, difficult and uncomfortable. But nothing changes if you change nothing. Don't stay stagnant and unhappy because it's scary. File those papers, start that fitness program, go after that career. You've got this.