01/16/2025
I saw something in one of the community groups I’m in today that really bothered me. The person who posted it specifically asked for no additional advice, so I didn’t respond there, but I wanted to touch on it here. They were asking for recommendations for a new primary care doctor because their current one brings up their weight at every visit and she doesn’t “have any medical conditions because of it”.
Why Your Doctor Should Talk About Weight Loss
Here’s the reality: excess adipose tissue (body fat) is not good for anyone. While you may not have noticeable “medical conditions” now, the science is clear—carrying extra weight increases your risk for countless issues down the road. And no, this isn’t about appearance or fitting into a certain size; it’s about improving your health, your quality of life, and your longevity.
✅ Reducing Adipose Tissue Reduces All-Cause Mortality
Decades of research show that losing even a modest amount of weight can significantly decrease your risk of heart disease, diabetes, stroke, certain cancers, and more. It’s not just about the number on the scale—it’s about your body operating in its healthiest state.
✅ Your Quality of Life Will Improve
You might feel fine now, but your body will thank you for making changes. Less joint pain, more energy, better sleep, improved mental health, and enhanced mobility are just some of the benefits you’ll notice.
✅ An Unhealthy Relationship with Food Is a Separate Issue
Let’s be clear: an unhealthy relationship with food is harmful regardless of your weight. But using that as an excuse to avoid addressing excess body fat ignores the broader benefits of pursuing a healthier lifestyle. Both challenges can be tackled together, with compassion and strategy.
⚠️ Avoiding weight loss just because you don’t currently have medical problems is a short-sighted approach. The evidence is undeniable—your doctor isn’t being cruel by addressing this; they’re doing their job. Reducing excess weight is one of the most impactful ways to protect your health long-term, and if that makes you uncomfortable, it’s worth exploring why.
As a coach, I’m here to help people improve their quality of life, not shame them. But sometimes, the hard truth is necessary: extra body fat carries risks, no matter who you are. Let’s tackle this together, with evidence, empathy, and action.
Let’s build a healthier, stronger you. One step at a time.