Diane Gould Therapy

Diane Gould Therapy Specializing in serving neurodivergent (PDA included)children, teens and adults and their families Ms. Her approach to behavior change is in no way traditional.

Gould has over 40 years of experience providing therapeutic services to children and adults. She is able to provide a clinical approach to changing behavior while using brain science. Concerning behaviors result from underlying issues that need to be addressed. She knows from experience that behavior plans sit in drawers and file cabinets and are not used. They also are often ineffective as they o

nly address the signal that there is a problem. Gould partners with individuals, parents, teachers and caregivers to come up with practical solutions to concerning behaviors by teaching skills and changing the environment. The stress is addressed which is communicated through behavior. The solutions reflect that what is observable is a neurological response to perceived threat. Individuals don’t make a conscious choice to have challenging behavior. These solutions are respectful, effective and sensible. Gould understands the challenges facing families of children who are struggling. As an experienced parent herself, she knows that a parent’s sense of well-being is based on how one’s children are faring physically, academically, emotionally and socially. A parent is really only as happy as their least happy child. Parents may need support from an objective professional at different periods during their child’s life. Couples may need counseling to strengthen their relationship in order to become better parents. Siblings and grandparents may need support as well. Gould helps parents build on their own strengths and find the inner resources to be the best parent they can be. She does not view needing professional support to be a sign of pathology or inadequacy. Individuals may need a partner in their journey of self-understanding. Some people need help learning to advocate to get their needs met. Gould’s services strive make improvements in daily life. She has had relationships with clients that has spanned decades and believes it is the relationship that is most important. Gould enjoys providing training and consultation to other professionals. Regardless of whether the service is relationship training, behavioral support or empathetic therapy, Ms. Gould believes that every client deserves the utmost respect and the highest quality services. She views those services as being Neurodevelopmentally informed, trauma sensitive, biologically respectful, relationship based ways of supporting all humans.

In our 2025 PDA Experience Report (based on over 2,000 PDA families), caregivers and PDA individuals reported rarely rec...
05/27/2026

In our 2025 PDA Experience Report (based on over 2,000 PDA families), caregivers and PDA individuals reported rarely receiving helpful or affirming information from providers.

The majority reported always or often receiving unhelpful or judgmental feedback, highlighting the gap in provider knowledge and support.

In an effort to help bridge this gap, we reached out to some of the top PDA-affirming therapists we know to create this 3-hour training for caregivers and professionals, all about therapy options for PDAers and what actually works.

Today, we are launching the presale for the training which will go live on the PDA Learning Lab on the morning of June 5th.

In this self-paced training, you’ll learn about how to adapt the following therapy modalities for PDAers, directly from seven different PDA-affirming therapists.

➡️ 7 featured therapists & therapy modalities included:

- Speech-Language Therapy with Linda K. Murphy, MS-CCC-SLP

- Occupational Therapy (OT) with Stephanie Arias, OTR/L

- Internal Family Systems (IFS) with Angele Close, PhD.

- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) with Britt Rathbone, MSSW, LCSW-C

- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) with Christine MacInnis, LMFT

- Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP) with Colleen Hanson, MSW, LCSW, CDWF

- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) with Jenny Hoving, LPC & Melissa Emmerson, LCSW, HSV

Our Therapy Options for PDAers training aims to educate both parents and professionals, as they listen to featured guest therapists share practical, neurodiversity and PDA affirming ways to adapt commonly utilized therapeutic modalities.

If you are seeking therapeutic support for your child or family, we hope this training helps you find the quality of services you deserve.

The PDA North America Conference is where understanding replaces judgment, autonomy replaces control, and people finally...
02/06/2026

The PDA North America Conference is where understanding replaces judgment, autonomy replaces control, and people finally feel like they belong. As one attendee said:

"This conference was the first time as a parent that I felt safe in ALL my choices to support my PDA child. Safe to talk openly about my struggles and feel seen and heard in a way I never have before. Without judgement, without fear, and without hesitation. I showed up as a stranger and left with a whole community of people who understand my experience and get it. I will be back every year!" - Parent of PDA Child & 2025 Conference Attendee

If you want more information, please comment "conference" down below. We go LIVE on Feb 27th!

If “consequences” worked for PDA kids, most of us wouldn’t be here. 💛 But for PDAers, traditional behavior strategies ba...
01/19/2026

If “consequences” worked for PDA kids, most of us wouldn’t be here. 💛 But for PDAers, traditional behavior strategies backfire because they miss the point:

Behavior is communication.
Not a character flaw.

When we say a PDA child “needs attention,” what we often mean is:
They need connection.
They need safety.

The hardest part is as parents, therapists, medical professionals, and educators, we were all taught to CONTROL the behavior. But with PDAers, the real change comes from building their capacity for emotional regulation so they can access the skills they already have, but haven't been able to access.

If you want to learn more, comment “PDA behavior” and we’ll send you the link to the pre-recorded webinar we did last month all about behavior and PDA.

More therapists are getting referrals for autistic clients—even if autism isn’t their specialty.And many clinicians are ...
01/13/2026

More therapists are getting referrals for autistic clients—even if autism isn’t their specialty.

And many clinicians are realizing traditional compliance-based or insight-first approaches can backfire when a client’s nervous system is in threat mode.

On Feb 6, I am hosting a LIVE 3-hour CE training for mental health therapists who want a stronger foundation for supporting:

✅ autistic clients
✅ PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) profiles
✅ high-demand sensitivity + nervous system-based “avoidance”
✅ therapy rupture patterns that look like “noncompliance” but are actually dysregulation

This is intentionally designed for clinicians who are curious and ready to learn—not only those already specializing in autism.

If you’re a group practice owner or clinical director, this is also a great training to offer your team as referrals shift. Join me on Feb. 6th!

Supporting PDA clients requires more than traditional therapeutic tools—it requires a completely different lens. PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance / Persistent Drive for Autonomy) is often misunderstood, misdiagnosed, and missed entirely in clinical settings. As a result, PDA individuals frequent...

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