Certified Master Life Coach CMLC, Certified Divorce Coach CDC® working with targets who are divorcing/breakup with narcissistic abusers, high conflict personalities, personality disorders since 2007. Are you/were you dealing with an abusive, hostile, professional? Are/were they threatening the entire ecological system of your life? Is/was it your partner, spouse, boss, co-worker, family member? Pu
tting you down and/or threatening you and in the next breath telling you how much they love you, appreciate you? Are you drained, devalued, debilitated to exhaustion? Trivial demands? Isolation? Are you smothered? Is your hair falling out? Are your adrenals pumping? Are you being denied sleep? Is s*x demanded of you and especially after they recently ravaged you? Are your thoughts completely poisoned? Are your thoughts circling round and round? Are you constantly defending yourself in your mind? Do you wake up every morning going over the same things in your head and it takes a few hours to clear it out? Do you wonder if you have PTSD? Do you no longer feel attractive the way you used to? Devouring your will is what the narcissistic abuser wants so they can have all the attention, all the praise, all the control and have all the power. You must not have any space or feel emotion in the relationship: especially anger! You must tend to every emotion the narcissistic personality has every moment. You are refused any emotions of your own, especially reactive one to their abusive behavior towards you. Your anger tells them you are taking control, filling space in the relationship/situation, owning your power and they CANNOT have that! You must be a zero in their minds, occupying zero space in every way. They must smother you. They will be as violent as needed to shut you up, reign and be all present in your ecological system. Biggest problem with a narcissistic personality: Sometimes they're charming and nice! Sometimes they seem like they are human. Be heard! I invite you to schedule with me here: https://scheduleyvettethecoach.as.me/
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I graduated with highest honors, with a human services master's degree in counseling and life coaching. I have been supporting people in their goals since 2007.