09/25/2026
Comment “MBM” because you have to train HABITS that will improve your skating and one of those habits is your mind and how you think about you, your skating, your practice, your performance, and a whole bunch of things and it all start in the mind.
Your brain might be the most undertrained part of your skating. 🧠⛸️
And no, I don’t mean “just think positive!!!” because sometimes practice sucks and pretending it doesn’t isn’t helping anyone 😂
I’m talking about actually learning how to recognize your thoughts, reframe them + make a better cognitive choices.
Because believe it or not this happens THIS happens:
You fall → “I suck at this.”
Someone lands something before you → “I’m behind.”
You have one bad run-through → “I’m not ready.”
You’re embarrassed to try something → so you… don’t.
And suddenly a THOUGHT is making your training decisions.
This is where CBT-style tools can be SO useful for athletes.
🧠 Catch → Check → Change
🧠 Behavioral Experiments
🧠 Fact vs. Story
🧠 The Next-Best-Step Rule
The goal isn’t to never be frustrated, disappointed, nervous or embarrassed.
but….
The goal is to stop letting those feelings decide what you do next.
Fall? Get curious.
Embarrassed? Laugh it off, do it anyway, and keep getting more comfortable with yourself and practice.
Bad practice? Take away something positive and move on…
Someone progressing faster? Back to YOUR plan, stick to your plan, put your blinders on and dig deeper!
Made a mistake? Use the mistake as data and use that data you collect to make the next one better.
Because you can spend hours training your body…
but if your brain convinces you to avoid, compare, catastrophize or give up every time something gets uncomfortable, we have another skill to train😉
Your thoughts are part of your training too.
Comment “MBM” to get all my programs sent to you in your DMs including my Standout Skater System and Standout Skater Reset which goes over a ton of mindset practices for skaters and how you can use it to help and change your practices and promote continuous progression:)
Save this & try these at your next practice⛸️🤍Mary Beth Marley | Professional Figure Skating Coach