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I help overwhelmed moms follow through in real life—so they can become the person they keep saying they want to be.

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I think one of the weirdest parts about having a public page is that people can know little pieces of your life without ...
09/03/2026

I think one of the weirdest parts about having a public page is that people can know little pieces of your life without really knowing you at all.

You might know I’m a stay-at-home mom, that we moved from California to Idaho, that I host a podcast, or that I care a lot about health and community. But the deeper thread through all of it is that I’m still learning, changing, getting humbled, and trying to be more intentional with the life God has given me.

I came to Christ later in life. I’m learning how to be a better wife, a more present mom, a better friend, and a woman who doesn’t need everything to be so black and white. I’ve spent years in health and wellness, but postpartum taught me there are parts of health you cannot solve with the perfect supplement, workout, birth plan, or routine.

And community has probably changed me more than almost anything.

I used to think having good friends meant I had community. Now I know there’s something completely different about having women nearby who actually do life with you. The random Tuesday Bible study, last-minute coffee, kids everywhere, bringing dinner when someone needs help, praying together, laughing until somebody pees a little 😂

It’s a huge part of why I’m building The WellStead Co. I want Christian stay-at-home moms to have real community while also learning how to steward the things God has entrusted to us: our faith, marriages, motherhood, homes, health, community, and calling.

Not perfectly. I definitely do not have any of this mastered 😂

I just care deeply about women not doing motherhood alone, growing into who God is calling them to be, and actually having support while they do it.

And if you’re new here, I really do want to know who you are. Send me a voice or video DM and introduce yourself. Tell me where you live, how old your kids are, what you’re excited about, what feels hard right now, and if there’s any way I can support you.

I’m really glad you’re here. 🤎

I worked corporate for years, and I really did love parts of it. I liked having goals. I liked being good at something. ...
09/02/2026

I worked corporate for years, and I really did love parts of it. I liked having goals. I liked being good at something. I liked working hard and feeling like I was building toward something.

But being home with my kids has scratched an itch in me that corporate life never did.

It’s making breakfast while they’re still half asleep. It’s deciding at 10:30 that we’re going outside because the weather is too nice to stay in. It’s hearing the weird little things they say all day that I would never know if I only got the evening version of them. It’s having another mom text, “Can we come over?” and saying yes even though there are toys everywhere and I haven’t done the dishes yet.

And I think that’s what makes this so emotional when your heart starts pulling you home. You can be proud of the career you built and still feel sad that your kids are spending most of their week somewhere else. You can be grateful for childcare and still ache because you know how fast these years are moving.

If that’s you, I’m not going to tell you to blow up your life and quit tomorrow.

But I do think you should stop dismissing the thought every time it comes up.

Look at the numbers. Talk to your husband. Ask what would have to change. See if there’s a middle step. Maybe it’s part-time. Maybe it takes a year. Maybe you find out it’s more possible than you thought.

Because I can tell you this from the other side: stay-at-home mom life is full in a way I did not fully understand before I was in it. Not because every day is amazing. Some days are absolutely chaotic 😂 But I get to be there for the ordinary parts of their childhood, and those are the parts I didn’t realize I would treasure this much.

If your heart keeps pulling you home, I think it’s worth finding out why.

I need you to hear me on this because I really think some women are trying to make motherhood feel better by changing ev...
08/31/2026

I need you to hear me on this because I really think some women are trying to make motherhood feel better by changing everything except the thing that might matter most.

You can have a good husband. You can love your kids. You can be grateful for your home. You can go to church, have a couple friends, do the occasional playdate, get out of the house here and there, and still be so lonely that your days start to feel heavy and repetitive and way harder than they should.

And I know some of you have people who love you deeply. Best friends. Sisters. Family. Women who would be there in a heartbeat if they lived closer.

But they don’t.

And when you are home with little kids all day, proximity matters.

You need women who can actually come over. Women whose kids know your kids. Women who don’t need your house clean. Women you can text when your husband is gone and you’re at the end of yourself and say, “I need people today,” and somebody says, “okay, we’re coming.”

I wish I could explain how much this changes things.

It doesn’t make your kids less needy. It doesn’t magically give you more hours in the day. It doesn’t make motherhood easy.

But suddenly you aren’t carrying all of it by yourself.

And if you’re reading this thinking, “That sounds amazing, but I don’t have that,” please don’t just decide that kind of friendship must be for other women.

Go find the Bible-believing moms. Keep showing up when it feels awkward. Invite them over before you know them that well. Say yes when someone invites you. Let your house be messy. Let your kids melt down. Bring dinner when somebody else is struggling. Be willing to be inconvenienced.

Give it time.

Friendship is a slow burn.

But please do not resign yourself to doing this season alone just because building community takes work.

And if there is no village around you yet, you may have to be the woman who starts one.

I really believe it is worth it.

This prompt doesn’t just tell you which woman of the Bible you’re “most like.”It helps you see the patterns in yourself ...
08/29/2026

This prompt doesn’t just tell you which woman of the Bible you’re “most like.”

It helps you see the patterns in yourself you may be too close to notice, then gives you a starting place to actually study those things in Scripture.

That’s what made it useful for me.

I answered questions about fear, waiting, conflict, relationships, calling, what I’m afraid of getting wrong, and how I respond to God. Then ChatGPT looked across all of my answers and told me what stood out.

For me, one pattern was how quickly I move when I’m excited about something. I can feel pulled toward an idea, immediately start figuring out how to make it happen, and then start overthinking every detail.

That’s why this line landed:

“Your willingness can sometimes outrun your peace.”

It also picked up on how much I care about building community, protecting my marriage, helping women grow, and wanting motherhood, family, work, and calling to fit together.

That’s where Priscilla came in.

Martha reflected the part of me that is practical and ready to move, but can get worried and mentally ahead of myself.

Hannah reflected the part of me that tends to lean hardest on God when life gets hard enough that I finally stop trying to carry everything myself.

And then it didn’t stop at the “results.”

It told me what passages to read, what to pay attention to, what questions to journal through, and who I may want to study first.

Obviously, use discernment. ChatGPT is a tool, not spiritual authority. Read the actual Scripture. Pray. Check the connections it makes. Throw out anything that doesn’t line up.

But if it can help you notice something you’ve been overlooking and send you back into the Bible with better questions, I think that’s a really valuable place to start.

Comment PROMPT and I’ll send you the exact one I used.

Maybe you’re SAHM curious.It’s been pulling on your heart for a while. You have friends who stay home with their kids an...
08/28/2026

Maybe you’re SAHM curious.

It’s been pulling on your heart for a while. You have friends who stay home with their kids and you think about what your life could look like if you did too. Slower mornings. More time with your kids. More margin. More room to actually know the moms around you and build real friendships.

But then you think about the money.

Maybe your income is not extra. Maybe it covers daycare, groceries, the mortgage, your car, savings, the life you’re used to. Maybe you have a good job and worked hard for your career, so walking away from it feels a little crazy.

But have you ever actually figured out what it would take?

What expenses would change? What would you want paid off first? How much would you want saved? Would you really need to replace your whole paycheck, or just part of it?

Maybe the answer is not yet. Maybe you need another year, more savings, less debt, or a small amount of income from home. But that is different than assuming it is impossible.

And for me, being home has been so much more than more time with my kids. It gave me the chance to find my village. Bible study during the week. Coffee while the kids play. Working out together. Just doing normal life with other moms.

After 20+ years in the corporate world, I did not expect this season to fill my cup the way it has.

If this keeps coming back to your heart, what feels like the biggest thing standing in the way?

Comment SAHM CURIOUS if this is you.

08/28/2026

I pray every woman gets to experience a life so beautiful. Wild to think months ago I didn’t think I would live long enough to even make it to Idaho. And now, my cup runneth over.

Maybe you just joined a Christian stay-at-home mom group and you still don’t feel like you have your girl yet.Maybe you’...
08/27/2026

Maybe you just joined a Christian stay-at-home mom group and you still don’t feel like you have your girl yet.

Maybe you’re new. Maybe you’ve been there for months. Maybe it feels like everyone else already has stronger friendships and you’re still trying to find where you fit.

Give it time. Real friendship takes time.

But instead of putting all your energy into wishing you had what someone else has, ask yourself, “What can I bring to this group?”

Use what you already have. Invite someone for coffee. Ask another mom to walk. Open your backyard. Host a little workout. Text the group and say, “I’m outside with the kids if anyone wants to come over. Don’t even get them dressed.”

It does not have to be a big event.

Honestly, some of the best time together happens on the most normal days. A random Tuesday. Kids in pajamas. Coffee getting cold. Nobody trying to impress anybody.

And you never know what that text could mean to the mom on the other side of it. She might be sitting at home completely maxed out, losing patience with her kids and wishing she had somewhere to go.

So send it.

You do not have to be super outgoing. You do not have to host the whole group. You can start with one mom, one walk, one coffee, one invite.

Keep showing up. Keep reaching out. Keep adding something good to the group.

The friendship you are hoping for may grow out of the very thing you decide to give first.

08/26/2026

She didn’t invite you. She hasn’t texted you back. She got together with some of the other girls and you weren’t there. She seemed a little off at Bible study. She said something that landed weird, and now you’ve replayed it enough times that you’re pretty sure you know what she meant.

Maybe you’re right. But maybe you’re not.

Sage said something in this episode that made me think about how often we do this in female friendships. Something happens, our feelings get hurt, and our brains immediately start filling in the blanks. She didn’t invite me because she doesn’t really like me. She hasn’t responded because I did something. She was quiet because she’s mad at me.

And before we’ve even talked to her, we have a whole story going about what she thinks of us and what was going on in her heart.

Then we start responding to that story. We pull back. We stop reaching out. Maybe we ask another friend what she thinks. And now something that could have been completely innocent has created very real distance between us.

I loved how simply Sage put it. Her heart isn’t necessarily mine to know. God knows her heart. What I need to worry about is mine. How can I love her well here?

Maybe that means assuming the best until I’m actually shown otherwise.

That doesn’t mean ignoring patterns or pretending something didn’t hurt. If I can’t shake it, I can go to her and ask, “Hey, this may be completely in my head, but I felt a little weird after that. Are we okay?”

Because there’s a big difference between:

“That hurt me.”

and

“She wanted to hurt me.”

I can acknowledge the first without assuming the second.

And whew. I think a lot of us could save ourselves and our friendships a lot of unnecessary hurt if we got better at that.

Sage and I went so much deeper into feeling left out, hurt feelings, gossip, conflict, accountability and loving our friends biblically in episode 56.

Comment EP56 and I’ll send it to you. 🤍

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