10/31/2025
2025 is the year of the liars🔥
Intentional lying that causes so much harm. Liars are human too but they can’t see the harm because they are focused on protecting themselves in the moment.
Liars hide behind more lies. No different than what we are seeing in the news, purposeful lies to sway the people. Whether it’s on the news, social media, in the home, or on the job lies are meant to manipulate.
“Habitual Liars” don’t give up. They will lose everything behind the lie, self-sabotage.
Facts:
1. They don’t like to revisit the conversations because they cannot keep up with what they said 10min ago.
2. Lying is a “Bad Habit” like addiction, very hard to break but never impossible when you desire change.
3. Some times we must leave others behind as we move into the contemplative stage of change.
4. If it’s worth it, don’t cut-off. Create boundaries. Forgive. It’s for you not them so don’t get stuck in the shame.
5. If you grew up in it, it most likely became second nature, a lifestyle.
6. How do you change. There is more than one way to learn.
- God/Spiritual Guidance
-Therapy
-meet with leaders who
-join a process group so you can meet peers who are learning new habits.
7. Asking for proof instead you get rage.
Children who don’t grow out of lying typically seeks attention and validation from many different people with the intention to manipulate. Fear of ??? Mad because ???
To lie is to be manipulative.
Why I don’t believe in cut-off? It’s unhealthy and does not resolve issues. Will you cut off your child? Mom? Dad? “Boundaries” are better because you are in charge of your Boundaries because they are there to protect you.
How can you stop yourself from arguing with a liar? Remain consistent and focused on the FACTS or knowing the FACTS without blame. Their horns will grow out of their heads right before your eyes. Like a child, they will become weary. If they don’t they aren’t ready for change and you will continue to be the blame.
The liar believes the lie because they fear with truth comes change.
