15/05/2025
Today I was working with a client, and as we moved through the session and it just wasn’t making sense. This isn’t the first time it’s happened, but that inner voice showed up again.
“Where is this going? This doesn’t make sense.”*
Still, I kept going. I kept asking questions, kept holding the space. And then, as we reached the end of the session, I began to notice a thread forming, a glimpse of the deeper purpose.
Suddenly, it all started to come together, the words came through, and the clarity arrived. The purpose was there.
How many times have you started something without knowing where it was going?
How many times has it felt like it wasn’t making any sense, and you told yourself, "There’s no point. This is going nowhere,” and you gave up?
I recently spoke with a friend who had an experience like that. She tried something new, something she’d never done before. She was excited and gave it her best shot. But it didn’t go as she’d hoped. And after that, she said, “I’m not doing this again. It made me feel bad.”
And that was it.
How easy it is to give up, right?
But what if she had said, “Okay, I didn’t really know what I was doing. It didn’t go well. I thought it would, and then boom, disappointment.”
The truth is: giving up is the easy route.
But finding a way through that takes something deeper.
To create something new, to become the version of ourselves that’s aligned with our truth, we have to heal everything that stands in the way.
And maybe there’s no “new” version of us.
Because we’re already everything we need to be.
But with all the experiences, the pain, the generational imprints, we forget.
And to reconnect with those parts of us that already know who we are, we have to heal the parts that keep telling us we’re not.
Just like I trusted the process with my client, even when it didn’t make sense, we need to trust our own unfolding.
We’re here to reclaim the forgotten pieces, the parts of us that are silently screaming to be seen, heard, validated, and most of all, embodied.
Because if we want to teach our children to follow their dreams, if we want to help them even recognise what those dreams are, we have to go first.
We have to show them.
And show ourselves,
That giving up isn’t an option.
