01/10/2026
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To all fathers who make child support conditional on whether they get to see their child, this message is for you.
Whether you see your child or not, their needs do not stop. They still need food, education, healthcare, clothing, and everyday necessities. Those needs do not disappear simply because you have disagreements with the child's mother.
Child support is not payment for access to your child. It is a responsibility to your child.
If you genuinely want to be more involved in your child's life, communicate respectfully with the mother and, when necessary, use the proper legal process to establish your rights and parenting arrangements.
But don't make your child carry the weight of an adult disagreement.
Do not use child support as a bargaining chip. Do not make your child pay the price for conflict between adults.
Be present when you can. Provide what you can. And most importantly, put your child's welfare ahead of your pride.
Because being a parent isn't about getting something in return.
It's about showing up, providing support, and doing what is best for your childโeven when things aren't easy. โค๏ธ