25/05/2026
I remember one morning when my husband and I kept correcting each other and picking on everything. We hated each other half the whole day that day because see, you can’t correct someone to loving you.
Connection over correction wins all the time. Couples wake up already scanning for what the other person did wrong or what to correct and adjust. We are constantly hyper vigilant on where our spouse is going wrong.
Trust me, that husband who gets corrected five times before breakfast? He’s not thinking, “You’re right, let me improve.” He’s thinking, “I can’t do anything right around here.” And same goes for wife..or even kids.
The hard truth I share with couples in session is; You cannot correct your way back to connection. But connection first will invite self-correction.
When someone feels seen, respected, and emotionally safe, they naturally want to show up better for you.
So this Monday morning, have you connected? Before you start lecturing them or nitpicking their every action.
That’s where love lives again.
📌And if you’re thinking, “That sounds great, but I don’t even know where to start”, I made something for you. It’s called the 28 Days Lovers Again Challenge. Over 900 people have been on this challenge with loads of feedback
It’s a deeply intensive, guided path to stop correcting and start connecting, and actually rebuild intimacy and friendship in your marriage.
📌Link in bio to begin. Or comment Lovers for the link.
