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▪️Marriage Counselor & Therapist
▪️Helping couples ENJOY marriage, God’s way.
▪️Individual, Couples & Premarital
▪️Book Sessions & Get Resources : www.ruthsmarriage.com

The good news is Drifting apart is a pattern, and patterns can be broken. You don’t wait for a pattern to magically disa...
30/08/2026

The good news is Drifting apart is a pattern, and patterns can be broken.

You don’t wait for a pattern to magically disappear, intimacy is not something you wait to see happen to you ; it is a skill you consciously practice daily.

📌If you are ready to stop the drift and rebuild the emotional safety, warmth, and deep friendship you used to have, start our 28 Days Lovers Again Challenge. It’s designed to help you rebuild the pattern that makes the two of you fall back in love with each other.

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For other marriage building resources, check the link in our bio

Marriages are collapsing because there’s so much advice that lacks context and wisdom. There are so many people speaking...
25/08/2026

Marriages are collapsing because there’s so much advice that lacks context and wisdom.

There are so many people speaking about relationship and marriages that are only speaking from their own perspective. Those perspectives could be from a place of hurt, privilege, trauma, or shear generic knowledge

Be careful what advice or words you are basing your marriage on. Someone may be a popular influencer or even have a way with words but not necessarily have the right wisdom for your marriage.

There are things I will say to couple A and I will not say to couple B in my private sessions; because the dynamics of couple A’s marriage is different.

Yes there are baseline common knowledge of what is good and bad that we all have but that baseline is usually the least of most relationship dynamics.

Hopefully this message reaches the people who need to hear it ❤️

📌 You don’t need to settle for an intimate marriage that feels routine, disconnected or confusing. You can learn the ski...
22/08/2026

📌 You don’t need to settle for an intimate marriage that feels routine, disconnected or confusing. You can learn the skills to build one that’s deeply connected, genuinely pleasurable and something you both look forward to.


🔥 Wives: Become a Baddie Wife → My Baddie in Bed
❤️ Husband and Wife: Build an Intimate & S*x Life you both crave together → The Love Playbook

Link in bio to both.

21/08/2026

If you want to feel in love, you have to act in love.
Many couples are waiting for the “feeling” of love to return before they start treating each other with kindness, respect and affection. They have it backward.

Intimacy is not a random lightning bolt; it is a direct byproduct of your behavior. Feelings of love are subject to actions of love.

When you wait for the feeling to drive the action, you get stuck in a standoff. When you use your actions to drive the feeling, you regain control of your relationship.

Romance follows intentionality. And love is felt in actions, not feelings first.

📌Stop waiting for the mood to strike. Start our 28-Day Lovers Again Challenge. It’s a daily, doable intensive, therapist guided program; one intentional, science-backed action designed to spark connection and bring the feeling of love back to the forefront.

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📌Other marriage help resources are also linked in bio. Repost and share to help someone.

I remember very early in our marriage, I always tried to be good in bed and ended up becoming so focused on my performan...
17/08/2026

I remember very early in our marriage, I always tried to be good in bed and ended up becoming so focused on my performance that I lost touch with myself, this happens to many couples. We must understand that intimacy is not performance, it’s about being present and being able to receive and give without pressure

When you start viewing s*x as something you should experience and enjoy and not something you should perform, that reframing does a lot of good for your relationship. Our resources goes deeper:

🔥 Wives: Become a Baddie Wife → My Baddie in Bed
❤️ Husband and Wife: Build an Intimate & S*x Life you both crave together → The Love Playbook

Link in bio to both.

Infidelity doesn’t always mean a secret lover. As a marriage therapist, I’ve seen many marriages suffer not because of a...
15/08/2026

Infidelity doesn’t always mean a secret lover. As a marriage therapist, I’ve seen many marriages suffer not because of a human affair but because of these things I listed on the slides

Sometimes, an “affair” is just anything that steals the touch, desire, connection and intimacy that belongs to your spouse. It starts small and remains continuous

Over time, you stop being lovers and start feeling like roommates. A passionate marriage requires protecting your connection from daily distractions.

Which one is your marriage suffering from ? Let’s discuss

📌 If this is your marriage, I will strongly recommend one of our bestsellers, The 28 Days Lovers Again Challenge. It’s a daily, doable intentional program to move your from roommate zone to falling back in love.

It’s linked in bio.

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