15/09/2025
Snippets from Sunday Evening Discussion on WhatsApp Forum of STRAIGHT TALK WITH DAYOR ;
TOPIC: What do ladies really want from men in relationship?
First thing to understand is that individuals have different expectations. As needs vary,so do expectations.
These are some of the expectations from the ladies.
•Compatibility in values, focus and vision.
•There should be something tangible the guy is doing currently that points to the direction he is going.
• He must be a man that has empathy and
• He must be kind, responsible, compatible, and respectful.
•He must be a child of God, fulfilling purpose and gainfully employed.
•He should have a walk with God, not just one who works for the God he doesn't know, he must have an experiential knowledge God.
•A true spiritual leader and priest, not one who seeks a praying machine to take up his God ordained mandate.
•A kind, loving, selfless,and caring man.
•A man who is sacrificial just like our Lord and saviour Jesus Christ.
Bible enjoins the man to love the woman just as Christ loves the church.
Jesus Christ, expressed his love practically by laying down His life for the church He loved so much.
-I don't mean he should literally lay down his life for me😂
- but he should be ready to take a bul.let for his partner
•His values should align with mine.
•A nurturer of my potentials, and not one who destroys it.
•A confident man who complements me, and not one who competes with me.
•A visionary leader, purpose driven, and focused man.
•A man who is financially stable to a reasonable extent.
•A good listener, and one who gives me attention.
•He must be ready to be a leader and not a control freak.
• Communication is very KEY, he must be able to communicate intellectually
End Note:
*When you see manipulative men, AVOID THEM* . 👂
NB:
I will want our men to carefully read through and digest the points and let's know if these expectations from the ladies are too high for them to meet up. And also let us know what their own expectations are so we can have a balanced view.
Shalom 🙏