21/11/2025
Good evening, my forever coach of life. My testimony is very longggg!!!! However, I'll try to make it short.
Being in the inner circle program The Intentional Parent Academy is a blessing I'd thank God for in my lifetime. I'm grateful to God for the gift of You!!
Innercircle gave me a sense of parenting direction. I was running on anyhow autopilot, but God delivered me.
My story: I live in Canada while my family is still in Nigeria, although they come summer or I come home. We want them to finish secondary school in Nigeria before we open the "abroad gate." It's been a journey as my husband (who is available) has been with them. Honestly, I appreciate my husband for what he does with the children. He's an involved father. However, there are no proper systems in place (you know how it is if you're not in the inner circle). Even the seeds I sowed on systems and structures before I left were beginning to die. I never gave up. I showed up with my husband for my kids virtually every visiting day, cultural day, inter house sports, and all school activities(my children are in boarding school). When my children are on holiday, I work less, bonding with them on the phone, giving tasks, and books for them to read and review with us. I have been throttling from my distance.
I write them through the school authority always. In fact, TIP taught me how to connect with my children even from a distance.
Coach, my children will call to share deep things with me that when I tell my husband, he wonders how I do it and I say, "there is how to and it's an inner circle thing" Some days, I fight, lecture and he turns off (arrogance of knowledge in action but I have repented ooo). Some days, I beg, pamper, praise him to listen to some webinars and voice notes, and he will listen. I will pray, cry to this great God.
Recently, my son has been going through a lot in school, and he would call me for guidance. I guide him. When he calls Daddy, he talks about nothing serious, so it started affecting my husband because he doesn't understand how it is that they call me instead of him. Do you know that my husband now listens to webinars and vns and discusses them with me.
Yesterday, he called and said darling please write those of your structures again."" Let me type and paste and prepare for their return.
Today, he used "idea" to ask me why I think he doesn't want to work with TIP principles( this is someone who will find fault with most things I send to him). I did as if I didn't hear him, but *E SWEET ME FOR BODY* I stopped telling him to join because he will always say, "darling, show me, don’t ask me to join" and I will be sooooo pained.
Coach, the summary is that my husband has agreed to join the 2026 inner circle. I can't believe it. I will make sure he pays now for himself (he pays for me every year oo) just so that he will commit to it. Coach, this is just a summary oo. My children are doing well. I'm not completely there but I dey work (even from a distance), e dey show. My daughter was in PH boot camp, and Aunty Etima and her team felt my work 😆 🤣 my sons were in Abuja boo camp, and we've not gotten over the lessons.
I will keep doing my best from where I am considering the season of life where I am. God bless you, ma. I'm grateful for the undiluted truth God uses you to release every day. I love you, ma❤️❤️ My testimony is a lot. This is just 0.5%
Chiamaka
Cohort 1O (my Cohort members will be shocked 😆)
(Inner Circle Parents)
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