21/03/2018
Today I want to discuss some commonly misused words in English. These words may seem to mean the same thing, but they don’t.
Hear vs listen: These two words are used to talk about something we do with our ears, but the difference is in whether we do it intentionally or not.
“Hear” is something we do without trying. We hear things all day long… the air conditioner running, the traffic noises outside, a dog barking… it is unintentional.
“Listen” is something we have to decide to do. We need to focus our attention on the sounds. We listen to the radio, we listen to our teacher in class, we listen to see if the baby is crying or playing.
So, “listening” is intentional, while “hearing” is unintentional, or as involuntary as breathing.
Speak vs Talk: “speak” and “talk” both generally mean to produce words vocally.
We use talk in an informal way to show that we are communicating vocally with another person. In other words, more or less one-on-one. You might “talk on the phone” or tell someone, “I don’t have time to talk right now.” “Let’s talk about this later.” However, it can be used when communicating with a group of friends (informally) “The girls talked all night at the party.”
We use “speak” in a slightly more formal way. For instance, if you want to borrow the car, your mother might tell you to “Speak to your father.” You might be a lecturer, and so you will “Speak to the audience” or as you introduce yourself, you may say; “Today, I will speak about building your business”… and if your voice is soft, someone might ask you to “Speak louder, please.” We also use the word “speak to share information about languages we or someone else can use to communicate…. “I speak English.” or “How many languages do you speak?”
Say vs Tell: Again, these two words seem to mean the same thing, but in fact we use them in different ways. We use “say” (or in the past; said) to talk about the words that someone spoke… randomly. For instance, “I was going to say (meaning talk about) that it’s a nice day.” In the example, the speaker isn’t talking to anyone in particular, just in general to those around her. If someone is talking, but you missed part of the conversation, you might ask: “What did you say?”
We use “tell” (in the past; told) when the speaker is giving information or a command to a person or a group. For example, “Tell your sister to stop shouting” (command) or “I’d like to tell you that you are a great student”. (giving information)
We can also use these two words (said/told) in reported speech, but that is for another day.
Until then, Keep Practicing!