06/11/2021
Dear Gen Z ,Are you too conscious of your physical traits ? do you waste your time thinking of your physical shortcomings thereby affecting your self confidence and self worth? Well, in my case, people around me used to worry about my short height , broad nose. I used to hear silly feedbacks such as let her undergo nose job or oh it will be difficult to find her a suitable groom as she is very short heighted. (Sounds funny rt! 🙂 ) But you know how society stereotypes are all about! I wasn't selected for group dance in school competition as teachers used to find me too tiny!!! So how did I handle such challenge in my childhood?? Make sure you are not affected by such judgements about you by following these tips... 1) Know your self worth. You are more than what others think about you. There's something more to achieve than just being depressed about your physical traits that are going against the stereotypes set by the fake society. . 2) The most valuable asset which you can ever give to yourself is upskilling yourself. Spend time in that. 3) Live your passion. Make sure you spend some part of your day in living your passion. This increases self love, self confidence and enthusiasm in you. 4) It doesn't mean your should be complacent of your shortcomings. Work towards your problem areas without being affected by it. 5) Never get affected or distressed by people's opinion on you. If they find you unworthy, it's their problem not yours. 6) You won't be able to impress everyone. So , just be good and chill! 7) Make sure you work on your mental health by being mindful of your reactions. Practice 5 mins meditation to explore your inner self. 8) ) And lastly, as long as you are working ethically towards yourself and people around you, as long as you are incorporating life skills such as kindness, gratitude and compassion in your lifestyle, you need not worry about your physical shortcomings or what people think about you. Just keep working on evolving yourself every day! This is what I followed in my childhood and made sure I am not affecting my self care, self worth and self confidence due to people's opinion on me.