10/08/2026
There’s a massive difference between thinking about a decision and actually making one.
I know this because I used to think I was making decisions when really… I was keeping my options open.
It felt like I was being sensible.
What I was actually doing was avoiding the discomfort of choosing.
One of the first things I work on with clients is understanding what it really means to make a decision.
A decision isn’t:
“Let’s see how it goes.”
It isn’t:
“I’ll do it if everything lines up.”
It isn’t:
“I just need to feel more confident first.”
A real decision sounds more like:
“This is what I’m choosing. Now what needs to happen to make it work?”
That shift changes everything.
You stop looking for evidence that your decision is right and start looking for ways to make the decision right.
You stop waiting for confidence and start building it through action.
You stop giving your power to circumstances, other people's opinions and the need for certainty.
If there’s something you’ve been “deciding” for weeks, months or even years…
Maybe you don't need more information.
Maybe you need to make the decision.
Yes, you might feel uncomfortable when you do.
That doesn’t mean it’s the wrong decision. (Very important)
Discomfort is often just the feeling of doing something differently.
If you’ve got a decision you know you need to make, yet you keep finding reasons to wait… this is exactly the kind of mindset we work together on.
DM me DECISION if you want to know more.
