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Dominique Flower Ribeiro
Identity & Emotional Healing Coach 🧔
I help women heal patterns, find purpose & inner peace ✨ 1:1 Coaching | Limited spots šŸ“ž Free Discovery Call šŸ‘‡

12/06/2026

My mum thought soap taught a lesson. It taught me to hide.

With my son, I’m choosing boundaries WITHOUT fear, and he’s funding his own college education at 50p a swear šŸ˜‰

This is what breaking the cycle actually looks like ā¤ļø

12/06/2026

Conscious parenting isn’t about your kids never getting it wrong.

It’s about what you do when they do.

This week tested me - here’s how we turned a school phone call into a real lesson ā¤ļø

11/06/2026

I tried craniosacral therapy this week. Here’s what actually happened.

I grind my teeth at night. Have for years. The dentist gave me a mouth guard - but that’s protection, not healing. And I’ve learned through my own work that grinding is often somatic. Stress the body can’t release any other way.

So I’m exploring.

Craniosacral therapy is gentle touch therapy - the practitioner places their hands on different parts of your body for five or ten minutes at a time. The research on it is mixed. The most recent systematic reviews don’t find strong clinical evidence it works for most conditions, and I want to be honest with you about that.

But here’s what I experienced:

Deep relaxation. A meditative state somewhere between sleep and awareness. Warmth where her hands were. I left calmer than I’d felt in weeks.

Was that the therapy itself? Or was it the rare experience of being held in safe, quiet stillness - something most of us never give ourselves?

Honestly, I don’t know.

What I do know is that for someone who lives in their head, runs a business, raises children - any practice that gets me out of nervous system overdrive is doing something useful.

I’m going to sleep on it before booking another.

Because here’s what I’m learning: not every modality has to be evidence-based to be valuable. But you also don’t have to keep doing something just because you started.

Trust the experiment. Trust your body. Trust yourself. 🧔

11/06/2026

Independence isn’t always freedom.

Sometimes… it’s what you learned
when connection didn’t feel safe.

Drop a ā¤ļø below & share if you resonate ā˜ŗļø
Follow for more emotional healing content šŸ™

10/06/2026

Five clients. Five women carrying the same invisible weight.

Little-t trauma is the slow drip - the criticism, the judgment, the gaslighting that’s been there so long you stopped noticing it was even abnormal.

And then one day you wake up in your forties and realise you don’t have to live like this.

But the guilt doesn’t leave. Because everyone around you keeps saying ā€œshe’s your mumā€ and ā€œfamily is familyā€ - and so you stay silent and you stay suffering.

This is your reminder:
You don’t have to keep performing peace in a relationship that costs you yours.

Low contact. No contact. Reduced contact. These aren’t acts of cruelty.

They’re acts of nervous system survival.

You can’t repair a dynamic while you’re still inside it being harmed.

You need space to heal yourself first.

Comment ā€œspaceā€ if this is something you’re working through - I’ll send you more 🧔

08/06/2026

A weekend in Venice with six of the friends I’ve known for almost twenty years.

We met when I was teaching English in Brighton - eleven of us, men and women from countries all over the world, ended up living together in one house. And somehow, two decades later, we’re still here. Still organising trips across continents. Still showing up to each other’s weddings, milestones, and harder seasons too.

I talk a lot on here about filling your own cup.

This weekend was that.

Not because I was in a beautiful city. Because I was with people who actually see me - who I don’t have to perform for. Who knew me before I knew myself.

That’s what nourishment looks like.
That’s what coming home feels like.

Real connection. Real laughter. The rare gift of being known. 🧔

06/06/2026

The internet throws around ā€œlow contactā€ and ā€œno contactā€ like everyone already knows. They don’t.

Low contact means staying in the relationship but changing the terms. Surface conversations only. Reduced availability. It’s not punishment - it’s protection while you do the inner work.

No contact is more complete - no communication for a defined period (or longer). Rarely a first step. It’s what some women arrive at when reduced contact still isn’t enough.

And the question I get most? How do I explain it to parents who won’t accept it?

You may not be able to make them understand. Because if they had the emotional capacity to truly hear it, you wouldn’t be needing this conversation in the first place.

So the goal isn’t to convince. It’s to be clear.

🧔 Save these - they’re here when you need them:

For introducing low contact:
ā€œI love you, and I’m needing some space right now to focus on myself. I’m not going anywhere, I just need things to look different for a while.ā€

For something more direct:
ā€œI’m not going to be as available as I used to be. This isn’t about you. It’s about what I need right now.ā€

For when they push back:
ā€œI understand this is hard to hear. My answer is still the same.ā€

For when they demand an explanation:
ā€œI don’t have a reason that will satisfy you. But this is what I’ve decided.ā€

For when they make it about them:
ā€œI know this is painful. I’m not trying to hurt you. I’m trying to take care of myself.ā€

For no contact:
ā€œI need to take some time and space to focus on my own healing. I’ll reach out when I’m ready.ā€

🧔

Whichever words you choose, the most important thing is what comes after.

You don’t justify.
You don’t defend.
You don’t apologise into a corner.

You hold the boundary. Calmly. Without drama.

Comment ā€œspaceā€ if this is something you’re navigating 🧔follow for more on healing family patterns.

06/06/2026

I got asked yesterday whether I’m a qualified psychologist or counsellor.

The honest answer is no. I’m a coach.

And I think it’s important to say that clearly, because the line between coaching and therapy gets blurred a lot online, and women deserve to know what they’re getting.

Therapists are trained for diagnosable mental health conditions, deep trauma, and crisis. That’s not the work I do, and when a woman needs that, I refer her on. Every time.

What I do is help women who are functioning but quietly suffering. People-pleasing. Self-abandoning. Stuck in family patterns they didn’t choose. I help them come home to themselves.

To do that work, I bring:

🧔 Seventeen years of teaching adults
🧔 Four years of my own deep personal work: talk therapy, schema therapy, life coaching
🧔 Formal life coach certification, and current training in trauma-informed work, because I want to keep deepening my skills

I’m not pretending to be something I’m not.
I’m a coach who’s lived this, and trained to guide other women through it.

If that’s the support you’re looking for, I’m here. If you need clinical care, I’ll always point you in the right direction.

Both are valid. Both are needed.

Knowing the difference is part of the work 🧔

04/06/2026

The face. You know the one. šŸ‘€

ā€˜Oh… you’re travelling again?’

For years that look used to get under my skin. I’d over-explain. Justify. Shrink.

Here’s what I know now:

→ Travel is one of my top 5 values. That’s where my money goes.
→ Other people’s discomfort with my choices isn’t mine to manage.
→ I don’t owe anyone a breakdown of my finances.
→ Living small to make others comfortable isn’t humility. It’s self-abandonment.

You’re allowed to spend your life on what lights you up.

Even if other people don’t get it 🧔

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