Cleft Warrior Woman

Cleft Warrior Woman Find optimism, faith and confidence as you navigate parenting a child with a cleft

💛From diagnosis to teen
💛Art work
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10/06/2026

Remember…

❤️It’s not your fault

❤️You are the exact right person to support and nurture this gorgeous life

❤️You are doing amazing

Comment podcast if you want to support yourself in understanding why you may be feeling the way you are.

Big love always
Katie ❤️

18/05/2026

Happy Cleft Awareness Week ❤️

Always choose curiosity and compassion over EVERYTHING else when living your life ❤️

Tomorrow the first of three conversations between Ella and me will be shared on ‘The Cleft Conversations’Ella is 19 now....
14/05/2026

Tomorrow the first of three conversations between Ella and me will be shared on ‘The Cleft Conversations’

Ella is 19 now. She was born with a bilateral cleft lip and palate in Singapore in 2007, and for so many years I have held both her experiences and my experiences as her mum very carefully. They are both connected and very separate.

They are both precious and important.

And there is a difference between sharing ‘about’ our children and creating space ‘with’ them, when they are ready, in a way that honours their voice too, more than that, in a way that gives them agency and confidence.

In these conversations, we talk about some of the real things.

One of the things Ella said, which I know is so important for parents to feel into, is this…

“They ( your child ) may feel different, and that’s okay.”

Because we are frightened that our children may feel different. I was.

But feeling different does not mean they are broken.

It does not guarantee anything will definitely present as a challenge for them.

It means they were born with a cleft and they may experience these feelings. Remove the story.

The deeper work for us is not to panic at the thought of our children feeling different, not to sit in the heartbreak if you hear them speak about themselves in a hard to hear way, but to support, guide and help them feel safe, loved, capable and whole inside their identity. Alongside their experiences, whatever they are.

To do this we have to look at the fear we carry too.

Our fear is valid.

But it is not theirs to carry. And they WILL feel it, so better to name, own and be with it, than to deny and push through.

Authenticity builds connection and connection builds safety.

So, in support of Face Equality International Week and Cleft Lip and Palate Awareness Week, we are sharing these conversations with YOU ❤️

As a mother and daughter who have navigated a lot.

On this episode we have a conversation that I hope will help another family feel less alone.

The first episode with Ella will be out tomorrow.

I really hope it reaches the parents who need it.

❤️

30/04/2026

After years of thinking about this, talking myself in and out of it, waiting for the “perfect” moment, the “proper” setup, the “right” time…

I’m finally doing it.

The Cleft Conversations is coming into the world.

It’s going to be short, honest and human.

This podcast is not really about the hospital dates, the appointments or the surgeries, although of course they are part of the story.

It’s about the bit that happens underneath it all.

What happens inside us as parents.
What happens in our homes and families.
What happens when we are trying to make sense of this journey for our children.
What happens when we are carrying fear, grief, love, guilt, hope, exhaustion and fierce devotion and often all at the same time.

It’s for the mum filling the washing machine deep in thought.

The parent driving home from school drop-off.

The family waiting for their baby to come out of surgery.

The person awake in the middle of the night with a baby, a quiet house and far too many thoughts circling around.

It might be messy.

There might be background noise.

There might be a few repeated words.

Ella may make a guest appearance.

Will might too. Who knows. Following the flow over here ❤️

But I’ve let “not perfect enough” hold this back for far too long.

So here we go.

A podcast about cleft from a very human perspective, nervous systems, behaviour, identity, parenting, fear, resilience, connection and raising children who know who they are.

The first episode drops tomorrow. It’s short and snappy - to get a feel, we will see where we go. One episode a week unfolding as we run up to the American Tour of 100 of the most beautiful faces you will ever see ❤️

Comment PODCAST and I’ll send you the link to listen when it’s ready ❤️

Big love to you wherever you are on your journey with cleft ❤️

One of the most special parts of this journey is the people I get to meet along the way.Sometimes those conversations be...
27/04/2026

One of the most special parts of this journey is the people I get to meet along the way.

Sometimes those conversations begin through a portrait commission.

Sometimes they begin because someone is seeking deeper support, understanding, or awareness around the impact cleft can have on our relationships, our bodies, our behaviours, and our sense of self.

And sometimes, like tonight, it simply feels like meeting extended family.

This evening I had the loveliest hour on Zoom with the amazing Luci Capo Rome, hearing about her life, her family, and her story.

There is something incredibly powerful about connecting with people who understand the cleft journey in some way — whether personally, as a parent, or through someone they love. There is always something to learn from each other ❤️

Thank you, Luci, for such a beautiful conversation. I cannot wait to see you in Kansas City this summer, and I’m so excited to share the evolution of your portrait as it comes to life.

These meetings are honestly one of my favourite parts of this work. The stories. The connection. The humanity. The laughs !! The reminder that none of us are walking this path alone.

If you’re interested in commissioning a portrait or connecting with me online, send me a DM. I’d really love to hear from you. ❤️

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