20/12/2025
This is for the actors who are giving themselves a hard time in training.
If your work in your class feels more “stretchy”, more emotional, more uncomfortable right now, it doesn’t mean you’re failing. It usually means you’ve stopped playing it safe and you’re going to places you don’t normally go in everyday life – emotionally and behaviourally.
Facing your own anger.
Staying present with a partner’s anger.
Letting real intimacy in.
Letting yourself be fully seen.
Of course that feels excruciating at times.
But this is also the point in the tunnel where most people turn back.
They quit one moment before they hit the gold in their acting.
If you’re in that place, please hear this:
– Your discomfort is information, not a verdict.
– Your care is not the problem, it’s the fuel.
– Staying curious and connected to your partner through the discomfort is the work.
Keep going. Don’t give up right where it feels hardest.
You might be closer to a breakthrough than you realise.