25/05/2026
I’m a hypocrite… but today I tried to right that wrong.
A while back I wrote a post saying “wear the damn shorts” — but truthfully, I didn’t. I wouldn’t wear them unless I was a plane ride away from home.
Today I did.
In my hometown no less, and I walked into one of my favourite coffee shops, … and guess what happened?
Nothing.
No one batted an eyelid. No one passed out. Not even me 😂
But something amazing DID happen.
I spoke to Aimee, a beautiful, clever and caring young lady who works there, and after a quick conversation it turns out she feels the exact same way. Like me, she’d rather struggle through the heat than risk the looks or judgement from others.
And it got me thinking…
Have we forgotten how to uplift people?
Somewhere along the way, too many people started fearing judgement more than being themselves.
That’s exactly why FEAR Academy exists.
Not just to build stronger bodies, but stronger minds. To help people realise that confidence isn’t about looking perfect — it’s about showing up as yourself anyway.
So to Amy, and to everyone else who FEARS the judgement of others…
Wear the shorts. Wear the outfit. Take up the space.
Be unapologetically YOU.
Because what other people say about you is NONE of your business 🤗